Miserable working with spouse?

[Anonymous]

I co own a business with my partner and I’m miserable. I don’t even feel like a woman anymore and feel he treats me like a man who helps him. I recently found out he’s been sexting and promising dates to a past costumer he met. I’m stressed miserable and feel used. I had people warn me about working with a partner and didn’t believe them. This is a smog registration business as well. He told me I’m like a guy. We are Asian people. I’m afraid after we make a lot of money he will leave me and start a family with younger woman or other race and she gets to be at home raising kids. Am I being dumb working with a partner. He also pushes me away for sex. We have not been intimate in 3 years. I’m worried and don’t know what to do. We had took his mistress to court and I was humiliated and devastated. The mistress was black girl with big boobs and butt.

[FilmGuy93]

Working with romantic partners is one of the worst things you can possibly do for your relationship. I have never once heard of it ending well. It was even the reason my parents had a long and bitter divorce.

Regardless of whether you get a new job elsewhere or leave the relationship; staying in your situation for even one second longer is a horrible idea.

[Asker]

I agree. I hate him and I’m there for money. It’s crazy because the mistress and him talk shit about me. They made porn video together and sent me the link.

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like a rough situation to be in. I hope you can find peace and happiness when you move on from all of this!

[TheSpaceGnome]

When I get married I'm co-running a family business with whichever woman I end up with.

You aren't dumb for doing that, you just picked the wrong guy.

A good couple has fun running a business together, doesn't cheat, and spends lots of time on intimacy.

[Asker]

Him and the mistress sent me the porn videos link

[TheSpaceGnome]

Dump him, you can always make money in another business with someone who actually loves you.

[Asker]

I put my money and hard work into it and he will use all the money he made to give a comfortable life to girl to relax at home.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Your earnings are supposed to be in separate accounts, not a joint account.

[abc3643]

Sell your half of the business or buy his half - get a "business divorce". This stuff happens all the time.

[EpicSnail]

Why are you with this guy at all?

[Asker]

Money

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

The dude is just a P. O. S. Get rid of the dead weight.

[lorenzomichael]

Yeah I get you. Do you need to be there, or even want to be there? If not don't be there. Besides that's a guy thing. Go and do something else. Listen Guys and girls can't be just friends. And married couples can't work together unless its a bakery or some shit. A neutral kind of business does that make sense.

[Asker]

I need money and when he’s too lazy to work I do it. On his off days he’s cheating.

[lorenzomichael]

Sounds like a scumbag. You shouldn't put yourself through that type of shit.

[CubaPirate]

Time to move on I'd say

[Asker]

I need job and money

[CubaPirate]

Good luck girl be positive and all the best for your future