Missing Condom since I last visited him, did he cheat?

We are in long distance and I visited him last month. Before I left, I counted how many condoms there were. Now I'm visiting him again, there's one short.

Did he cheat?

note: he's never used a condom to masturabate before from the time I've known him. So this is not likely reason.

What do you you guys think?

Should I ask him? If so how should I approach it so that he doesn't get offended that I keep count and been through his draw?

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  • Did you check his wallet before and now? maybe he put one in there?

    If you did and it';s not that then yeah I would assume he cheated.

  • ONE condom? Seriously?

    I understand your worries. Such a low level of sexual prowess in a young man should warrant a visit to the doctor. Does he have heart problems? Does he tend to fall asleep after round one? Or maybe the girl he cheated with wasn't up to his tastes?

    Or perhaps it was a man? Let us not be homophobic here. Inclusive is the word.

    I presume you also counted the tissues in the box near the bed (must've been quite difficult to put them back unnoticed) and weighed the bottle of lube? Be sure to smell all the dildos, too.

    > Should I ask him?
    > If so how should I approach it so that he doesn't get offended that I keep count and been through his draw?

    Yes, you should definitely ask him. You will do him a great service. And after he throws you out, perhaps you can learn from your mistakes?

  • He could say he gave one to his buddy.. then what would you say? Then it all goes down hill from there... because he now has a creepy girlfriend counting condoms... where does it end?

  • You counted the condoms?

  • From my experience 2s, it would be way more than 1 condom missing. There would be like 5 or more missing. Sounds like a lent condom but I would just keep an eye on it. Definitely ask if it's eating away at you though.

  • I don't think that's very conclusive of much. Could even be so simple as he put the condom some place else.

  • You have trust issues. If someone was counting my stuff I'd dump them quite frankly. How do you not know he let a guy friend have one?

    • Took the words out of my moth

    • @yucel_eden it's absolute craziness. If you look for issues and check up on people you will find a problem because you make one!

    • I think it's more of an issue with her rather than the man. She's fucking about with him.

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  • I would straight up ask like yea I looked around but why is one missing?

  • You probably just counted wrong, but why count at all? That's a weird thing to do...

  • LMAO he has a crazy girlfriend lol
    Maybe he gave one to a friend that needed it. Maybe he tried it on, as practice.

  • Maybe he threw away the expired one. Or maybe he was having fun with them without having sex. I make condoms big balloons when i am bored af.

  • Trust him or don't (apparently you don't otherwise you wouldn't be doing things like condom counting), but LDR's suck. He probably did cheat since it's so easy in LDR's, but a missing condom is not real evidence since he could have simply threw it away (those do expire) or put it in his wallet, the fact he's a human in a LDR is. As an example I wouldn't use a condom anyway (I never have and still never had an STD in almost 25 years of fucking, if I needed a condom to fuck someone I probably shouldn't fuck them to begin with, to me it makes as much sense as running into a burning building with a heat suit on). I also don't do social media or own a smartphone and use cash when I'm doing something that has bad repercussions if caught, so dunno what you'd rifle through and try to find with me.

  • I wouldn't ask, the MOST you can get from asking is a 'no', what do you think, if he is cheating he will say yes and start crying? Nope.

    plus, if he didn't do it i will be the weirdo counting condoms, so just let this one go.

    plusplus, if i cheated with my girl in another city i wouldn't have used only one condom lol

    • you would be the weirdo*

  • Honestly, probably yes. Why would it be missing? Cheating is the most likely reason. I am not saying there aren't other reasons but it is the most likely one. I know all these guys are just trying to have his back.

    • Reading from what another guy said, what if his buddy needed one so he gave him one?

  • Even if you did ask him, it's not like he's just going to say
    'Hey, yea you got me... I cheated'

    You could however mention it in a light hearted fun way... nothing serious... and kinda just feel out the friction in the force if there is any.. often times you can somewhat get any idea. That's as far as it's going to go probably

  • I had a box of condoms. Sadly they are all gone. You know why? It's called being bored as fuck and having a bottle of coke and pack of mentols and whole Large box of condoms to enjoy some stupidity :)

  • 1. Confront him. Dont hold back.
    2. Get deservedly dumped.
    You have no "right" to snoop. This kind of controlling crap is why guys avoid committing. You dont own him.

  • He could have given one to his brother or friend

  • I wouldn't jump to that conclusion so quickly. Maybe the package was damaged, or he masturbated with it or "practiced putting it on".

    Is this guy giving u any other signals of cheating?

  • Talking to him is an option, but personally I would freak out if a girl told me she counted the condom, like wtf? There are like a million things he could have done with this condom, he could hva given it to a friend, he could have taken one and put it somewhere else, many other options.
    And if he cheated on you, there's always the option of buying new condons or maybe the other girl has some condons herself? So your theory is kinda lame to me =/

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