MMe and my fiancee are planning out first time any tips?

[Anonymous]

So my fiancee and I are getting married in two weeks. We've never had sex before but we have made out and dry humped before. We're both very excited but we're not sure what to do so we have a few questions
1. How long should foreplay last? 10 minutes? And hour?
2. What all should we do for foreplay?
3. How messy is it should we have towels and stuff?
4. What position should we try it in?
5. How can I make it hurt less for her? I really don't want to hurt her
6. Could I actually make her cum our first time
7. How many times could we do it in a day?

[Twalli]

Do foreplay until you're both ready. She needs to be very wet down there. I prefer 69 for foreplay, but it's up to you. It's not really that messy but as she's a virgin she msy bleed so doing it on a towel would be good. When my girlfriend and I have sex on her period it's always with a towel down. For a girl's first time cowgirl gives her the most control. It will probably hurt the first few times for a girl. It won't be the whole time, but you probably can't avoid hurting her in the beginning. My sister said it hurt for her the first 4 times. My girlfriend saidc that it never hurt for her, but apparently my girlfriend was one of the exceptions. You can make her cum every time. If she can't cum from penetration she may not cum the first time, but unless she has used a dildo and cummed, I don't know how you'd know beforehand. My girlfriend and I did it 4 times our first day, but our record is 6 times in a day.

[Asker]

Thank you I'll keep it in mind

[DrunkAss]

1. Until she's ready for you.
2. Whatever she needs to get ready for you.
3. Not so messy unless you got one of those who lubes super thick and mucus-like or she's on her menstrual cycle.
4. I actually think first time is best cowgirl cuz the girl is the sensitive one. Guy's like, "Derp, don't feel anything" and can jam things in there. She can control the pace from the top.
5. See #4.
6. Probably not but it's the thought that counts, no?
7. Figure that out after.

[Asker]

Thanks that was super helpful

[DrunkAss]

Cheers. Well, in my blunt opinion, the chances of a guy doing so well on his first time is pretty slim. The chances of a first time girl not hurting and turning into a pained starfish is pretty slim. So I wouldn't look at a wedding night from people who abstain before marriage as some sexual gold standard. It's probably gonna be a bit clumsy, awkward, frustrating. But unlike, say, ONS, you know each other. You love each other. So go slow, laugh, don't try to pretend. Have some fun. If you two aren't ready to be "hot", then you know how to keep it "warm". So lay next to each other and be warm. Don't try to put on a show just yet.

[DrunkAss]

You got a whole lifetime ahead to get better, learn more about each other. Focus on the mind -- make the body second. That's good for sex too.

[Anonymous]

Congrats on getting married
1. At least 15 make sure she's defiantly ready
2. Start by making out then move to fingering and going down on her. She can give you a bj too
3. She'll be wet and there might be blood so a towel is a good idea
4. Missionary is fine as long as you go slow. Cowgirl is good too
5. Good foreplay is your best bet at hurting her as little as possible
6. Maybe if you do it right but I wouldn't get you hopes up
7. I'm not sure she might get sore so I'd say 3-4 times

[Asker]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

It's not like flying a helicopter.