Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I'm not going to start with the overused and cliched "don't judge a book by its cover." Yeah, we all know: #dontjudgeabook
I'm not going to be all self-righteous and lecturing and say, "Hey, look up from the tits; there's a brain in that head."
I don't need to explain that she's as big a gamer as any dude out there, that she started on the SNES, that her favorite game series of all time is God of War, that she loves JRPGs (gamers know exactly what that is), and that she and I could probably blather on about our favorite games and memories like two old friends with that singular common thread.
No, I don't need to do any of that because model, die-hard gamer, and popular YouTuber and Twitcher Tara Babcock speaks for herself. I don't need to offer our readers introduction, clarification, or disclaimer because Tara, much like Mia Rose, is intrinsically incapable of pulling punches. She hides nothing, tells you what she thinks and if you don't like it, she'll just shrug and move on with her life. Her response to finding out guys masturbate to her vids? A blend of flattery and amusement, without a trace of offense (see it in her "okay to fap" video below). Piss her off, try to use her? A simple GTFO is her response. A true friend? She might lie down in traffic for you. Want to hear some of the most candid, passionate thoughts on some tough subjects? Check out her awesome Vlogs.
But damnit, I'm doing what I said I wouldn't do. So, without further gilding the lily...simply Tara.
GaG: Let’s start by clearing things up: What is the #1 false assumption people make about you?
Tara: “Probably that I’m into gaming and YouTubing to get money. That’s definitely #1 but I have no idea why. I think people are under the false assumption that I’m just an attractive girl who games and that’s enough to make a lot of money. But the people who get the most amount for their streaming are still male, and even if you’re pulling in a bunch of viewers all the time, your revenue is such shit unless you’ve got some backing. Most of the money I make is off subscriptions and donations to my Twitch and things like that. I really don’t know why people think I make a ton with all this stuff.”
GaG: What’s your reaction to the term “titty gamer” or “titty streamer?”
Tara: “I really have no idea what that is. Well, I have tits and I game so I guess that’s me…? Obviously, there’s some sort of weird negative connotation behind that, like you have to be some kind of disingenuous person who doesn’t know shit about gaming. I don’t know, a lot of the phrases people come up with are just beyond me; there’s a lot of stupidity out there. The random person behind the computer screen can say and do whatever they want and yeah, that’s when the stupid crap comes out.”
GaG: Obviously, you love video games. What are some of your favorite early memories?
Tara: “The game that really inspired me to play every single day and be someone who is a lifelong gamer was ‘Super Mario Bros. 3’ on my NES. It came out when I was really, really young; I was actually too young to have the system when it came out, but my parents had an Atari and the 8-bit NES so I started playing consoles early. And I’m really glad I did because today’s children are just being exposed to the worst games, I think. I feel they need to be exposed to the early games so they can appreciate them, and also so they can see how far the industry has come.
Then a lot of gaming in my teens involved playing ‘Mario Party’ on N64 with my friends. I had like 13 guy friends at my house at any given time and really, this is one of my best memories.”
GaG: Many girls still complain of suffering abuse when playing games online. Have you experienced this?
Tara: “I feel like I experience the same amount of abuse as anyone else experiences.
As somone in the spotlight, I'm saying it's okay for people to make an opinion about me--
--and when it’s an online game, some anonymous gamer is going to flame. I mean, people are just going to flame; that’s the way things are online, especially if it’s something like CoD (‘Call of Duty’). They find that one thing to pick on, like if you’re a gay guy or a girl or whatever, and then they base their insults on that and off they go. If all they know about is that you’re a girl, they’re going to make fun of you for being a girl.
And it’s not about being misogynistic. A guy will call another guy a faggot and crap like that but it doesn’t mean he hates you. They don’t know anything about you; have no idea if you suck at the game or anything else. They’re just trying to get your goat and you know, that’s the online dichotomy. You can’t change it.”
GaG: We spoke to Mia Rose about porn; she thinks it really screws up people’s expectations and perceptions of sex. What do you think?
Tara: “Yeah, I think it does mess with people’s expectations. But I also believe it isn’t porn’s responsibility to teach people about sex. I actually made a video about this before, about parents raising you with morals and expectations, and if they try to censor everything. I don’t think they should censor things at all, so that way it would be common sense to people when they grow up that things are different in porn. If they’re exposed early, they’d know it’s not real, like action movies and superheroes. I feel like kids are just thrown out into the world with no actual facts, so blaming porn for being bad in bed or being screwed up socially is like blaming Marilyn Manson for school shootings."
If someone ever says they committed a crime because of some media they saw or experienced, they were already screwed up and anything could’ve pushed them over the edge.
GaG: You mentioned an interest in Psychology; which aspects of the science are you interested in?
Tara: “Oh, behaviorism, sociology, all types of psychology. I love to read about all these things and I’ve recently been reading about how dreams affect the mind. I sometimes sit on the computer and five hours would pass because I’d be so involved with a certain topic, or maybe I was reading about certain philosophers. I’m also really interested in the psychology of serial killers and I always thought I’d like to do that for a job. Yeah, I wanted to be a criminal psychologist, but then I found out it’s not always about tracking down serial killers, and that there’s a lot of boring and trivial stuff I wouldn’t be interested in.”
GaG: In your view, what’s the dating scene like these days? Is it actually harder for you given your celebrity?
Tara: “I have a really weird way of handling my love life. I don’t date. I don’t do the normal monogamous relationship; in fact, I don’t put a label on anything I do. I don’t go out for coffee or stuff like that; I don’t have time for it and I’m not interested in it. When I meet someone I’m pretty straightforward, just like, ‘do you want to fuck or not?’ I feel like the dating scene has so much bullshit in it, and that people are always trying to get into my friend circle because it makes them feel cooler or something. Because of that, I don’t allow many people into that circle and I’m kind of guarded on that score.
But I will say that I think women definitely have it easier in the dating scene in general, and I have it even easier because most people wouldn’t say ‘no’ to me. I guess my pull on the Internet gives me more gumption.”
GaG: When you say guarded…?
Tara: “I’ve always been that way; it’s just kind of my personality. I feel I can break off from any relationship whenever I want. And I don’t mean in a heartless way; I don’t ever sleep with anyone to get anywhere or befriend someone who I could collaborate with. I basically just find it really hard to meet people who I feel are intelligent enough to even be around. I guess I also think I’m desensitized, in that I can’t relate to other people very easily, and often I have these deal-breakers or little triggers. Like they do something to me and that’s it, I’m done with them.
However, I’m extremely loyal if I think someone really does belong in my circle. I won’t say there was any trauma when I was growing up; I think I just get easily bored when I’m around other people. I also don’t like drama; a lot of girls my age doing the modeling or gaming thing seem to thrive on it and I just hate it.”
GaG: We know you have strong views on women in gaming and feminism in general. Care to elaborate?
Tara: “You know, I play Magic the Gathering and in that community, it’s all about being more feminist than anything. You can’t make jokes about being a girl, you can’t even mention that someone is a girl. This is just ridiculous to me.
Western #feminism isn’t even necessary; it’s just this cult that hates men. I think we should be truly egalitarian instead of making up a word that basically says we’re not equal, when we should want to be equal. Western feminists don’t care about equal rights, and they don’t know how bad women have it in other countries.
Here…women have it so fucking easy. I can’t get over how easy women have it, especially knowing how oppressed women are in other parts of the world. Everyone around here has to walk on eggshells around women and it’s just stupid. And for gaming, you see women enter this previously male-dominated hobby and immediately say, ‘okay, you can’t say this,’ ‘you can’t do this,’ ‘you can’t act like this,’ etc. They come in and say you have to change everything just to appease their weird sense of ‘feminism.’
And what’s wrong with the women in games being fantastical?! Why can’t we have big bouncing tits in our entertainment? I’m not offended and I wouldn’t be offended if I played as a girl who looked different than me. Who cares? Men want to see tits and they’re genetically programmed for that; so what? How is that offensive? I really hate the changes they’re making in games, actually; it’s so illogical and it proves that there is a difference between male and female mannerisms. Women take it as a personal attack when they see something like this, and women feel like they’re always up against some kind of adversary. Why do they get to dictate what sort of media men can enjoy?
Stop trying to make every female protagonist this genderless asexual creature!”
GaG: What are your long-term goals? Do you think you’ll keep doing what you’re doing?
Tara: “I really hope I can keep it up. I think I’ve finally found what I want to do in my life. My Twitch stream has been up and down and it’s not currently at its peak, but my YouTube channel is doing well. Still, I’m a fledgling at all of this and there’s a long way to go. I’m just happy that I found this; I get to be my own boss, which is great. I hate traveling, which is something I really despised about modeling, and I also hated having to schmooze people I don’t have anything in common with.
I wish I could make more time in my schedule but I just don’t know what to cut. My everyday streaming takes up almost all my time. There’s just never enough time to do things I’m passionate about, like modeling shoots. It’s not just that they pay well; it’s also sexual and communicative and I really like gaming-related sexiness, too."
Yes, I’m a really sexual person and I love games, and that’s my hook. I also have a personality that makes for interesting commentary so I’m going to use that. I can’t imagine doing anything else and honestly, I think I’ve found my niche.
End Interview
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What Girls & Guys Said
26 51Ugh, not my preference.. annoying to listen to, as well. Oh dear.. well at least she has her rack to get viewers. Not someone you can take seriously.
You can't, not the royal "you." I feel bad for you if you can't look past someone's appearance to see whether you should or should not "take them seriously" without your societal bias.
@TaraBabcAWEck Hypocrisy does not help convince me, dear lady.
Babcock... LMFAO. What a name XD
~Babcock went to Bangkok
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feminists have this unhealthy obsession with videogames and gamers... Pretty typical of them to preach about consensual sex while they get in people's faces about the sort of media they seem to enjoy, completely unsolicited and without a shred of credibility. Feminism fails the minute it decides what women should think... They can think for themselves and have been doing so admirably without being influenced by political dogma.
I'm not the least bit interested in this woman or her content, but I have to ask:
Is her behavior / career path stealing or destroying property?
Are people being forced to subsidize her financially?
Is she hurting or killing anyone?
Is she restricting others' freedom to be who they want to be?
Is she trying to be beat folks over the head with her ideology?
The answer is "no" to all of the above, so I say: carry on, Ms. Babcock, carry on.
Now she is an amazing person that understands things as they are. I don't see her as fake at all. She does what she wants not what everyone else does. I just keep saying this why can't everyone just worry about themselves and enjoy others differences.
off a comment lumos made that i can't respond to because i blocked her:
if you look at a lot of games bioware made ones especially guys are becoming hyper sexualized at the discretion of the gamer as well. i dont think the answer is to take away the fantasy aspect that players enjoy (mostly men) but make it so that both men and women are hypersexualized if that's the game. (a lot of jrpg as well as even western rpg tends to do this) the problem is that women only are the targets and there's literally no fairness to it
Omg she likes captain america! I saw the plush in the background. I'm not even gay and I love her already #teamcap
Let's see how many guys try to slide up in her private messages lol
He's the sexiest! :)
Seen her in a porno on pornhub once got taken down tho know it was her cos of the tattoo on her foot
lol I think yours is the only comment she hasn't replied to... conspiracy? lol
She owns up to her sexuality. More women need to learn from her.
“The game that really inspired me to play every single day and be someone who is a lifelong gamer was ‘Super Mario Bros. 3’ on my SNES."
I really, really hope that this is a typo. If not, then SMDH.
Typo on our end. Fixed now.
No worries haha
Ever see Canadian columnist/libertarian activist, Lauren Southern? She is the one that got piss dumped on her head for saying that there are only two genders. Yeah, super controversial of her to speak her mind.
Wow - anti-feminist women are hot, as opposed to...
Damn...
this is... nice?
This woman deserves a medal
Haha, thank you! :)
@TaraBabcAWEck Holy crap, it's you?
So... I don't get it. Is this person important?
Wow, she is awesome!
I love her "don't care" attitude.
And she's gorgeous too :)
Thank you!
Why I can't stand female streamers... Perfect example. She purposefully looks like she is a doll with no brain. It's a shame.
I look like a doll on purpose, yes, but I definitely have a brain--a rather vast one, at that. If you don't like my look, fine, but that is not a good reason to write me off as a gaming live streamer.
@TaraBabcAWEck First off let me apologize. I posted this without even reading the article. Probably no surprise to you their given what you said in the interview. I don't like being part of the system, I like being part of the solution. After reading this, your comment, and doing some introspection I can't find a reason to dislike you. Instead I am now left feeling like we have a lot in common that I may have seen if I had given you a fair chance, and hadn't judged you before knowing anything about you. I too am very intelligent, and will sit and read about a topic for hours, especially when it comes to psychology and sociology. To be frank I don't care who you are as a live streamer. I care who you are as a person. The heart of my comment was I felt you were misrepresenting yourself, and I bet there was a cool person under all the "glam." I put my foot in my mouth. That I regret. I would like to be your friend and get to know you. What you said in the interview resonated with me.
@TaraBabcAWEck Follow me. Read my myTakes, and responses to questions. Still don't want to talk to me then, whatever. Totally hypocritical of me given how this conversation started, but I take that risk purposefully, cause I think we'd make great friends.
@TaraBabcAWEck www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a26585-why-men-women-should-band-together-tell-the-media-to-shove-it
awww. I love when people take the time to read and get to know her. She is amazing.
@missmiarose sarcasm?
No. You had a different opinion and posted your thoughts, before reading or getting to know her personalty.
@missmiarose Yea. My opinion changed after reading her responses. Are you happy to see a changed opinion or mocking for not reading?
No, I am legit happy. Not being an asshole. Text is kinda weird like that sometimes. I'm sorry.
@missmiarose Lol no worries. I am also dense sometimes :-P
I fail to see the point of this take.
Be honest here. Who didn't read a single word and just scrolled through looking for cleavage?
I know right! She is one thing clear and simple.. A great business woman! Do you really think that with her good looks she wastes her spare time/ days off playing video games? No, that's work and someone ( probably a boyfriend) is training her, because there is big money in looking hot and knowing about gaming. Does anyone think she wakes up like that? she is HM ( high maintenance). That body goes to the gym to work out at least once a day, not to mention the time with makeup, clothing etc.
@Poppykate 100% wrong on all counts. I look this good for me, and that's the same reason I spend all of my time playing game. I enjoy it, it makes my life worth living. Also, believe me, there is not that much money in gaming when you pull the amount of viewers and video views that I do. Before you generalize something you know nothing about, do research on ad revenue, view revenue, and how that relates to the size of my audience.
I don't know i think girls like this havet some sort of mental issues. Normal girls dont want to be like this. Most normal women have some sort of integrity and intelligence. Gamer bimbos make me feel bad for women because it just makes us men look like better people PS white girls are ugly and this girl makes my dick go down
@naturaldeven4 no need to be a dick about it
Just the result of poor parenting and women with Low intelligence. Why can't she do something productive with her life? Girls like her just make me think women will never become equal to guys :(