Monogamy harder for women or men?

[JennieF]

According to this article, monogamy is harder for women than for men. Do you agree?

https://www.vice.com/en/article/a38dwj/monogamy-may-be-even-more-difficult-for-women-than-it-is-for-men

[Andres77]

It’s not harder. Now that society has made raising a family more convenient and women are more empowered than at any other time in history…women simply have as much, if not more, opportunities to fuck around. Women have always wanted to fuck. Now it’s just easier to get dick than ever before.

monogamy is not natural. It’s something more elevated than natural. “happy marriages” are not happy if either partner fucks around. This woman is educated and intelligent but…she’s a fool. if you want to fuck, go fuck. But don’t say you’re in a “happy marriage” while getting banged in the club restroom during “girl’s night out”. Swingers or polyamory relationships are also another level. They don’t fit here quite the same way. I’ve been all parties in this, cheated on, cheated, fucked a cheating spouse. I also finally learned some lessons. And I have lots of regrets. Contributed to lots of needless pain when I was just being selfish. I know I go on in circles, the only point I’m going to hold onto is this: if you’re really “happy” then you won’t fuck around.

[Berethor]

I believe that the link is full of feminist bullshit, cucks are beta males. Women can get pregnant only once in nine months, also slutty females tend to get fucked and dumped in the wild.

[MCheetah]

Yes, because women get ten times the choices for partners than men do.

[LazerBean]

It's not hard at all.

[SamIam96]

Is monogamy really difficult for either of us? Polygamy seems like a lot of work.

[slatyb]

It's equally hard. When a man cheats, he's cheating with a woman. Because the numbers of men and women are about equal, they average number of lifetime sex partners is also equal.

[leighbee]

Same for both

[Guardian45]

Why?

[Rockstarrrrr]

Men..

[genericname85]

i would say so. simply cause the average woman has way more options than the average man. it's easier to stick with something, if you don't have all that much of a choice anyway.

[TroyDT2]

No idea. I've only ever been male.

[NYCQuestions1976]

It depends on the individual. Some people are built to be monogamous, and some people rather rather have casual physical relationships.

[Iron_Man]

I have no idea

[larry69]

Women can get sex easier and women feel the need for sex more than men. Women have needs.

[RebeccaSJ]

I think it's harder for women.

[Guardian45]

Why?

[Debbie14217]

men lol

[Alex8736]

50-50 toss up give or take

[CharlieDMX]

I think that is incorrect. You may have a statistic but there's no proof it is harder for one sex over the other

[msc545]

Probably harder for women who get far more overtures, and have to deal with their hypergamy all the time.

[CubaPirate]

Men may need to spread their seed, but women need to get the best out of the gene pool to procreate

[jimmy2]

And yet it both

[controlleddecent]

its def harder for women everyone is constantly trying to fuck my wife. guys always have a harder time

[Anonymous]

Women are more likely to want a monogamous relationship because they're more interested than men in establishing an emotional connection.