Most women don't orgasm during hookups. In your own personal sex life, will you work to change this?

The reason women orgasm much less often in casual hookups is partially our own fault because we are enabling it.

If we refused to have sex with men unless they gave us as much pleasure as they’re getting, or more, then they’ll have no other choice but to work to give us as much pleasure as possible.

Seriously, ladies. You’re worth more than some mediocre sex that results in orgasm only 10% of the time. Who’s benefiting more from such a hookup? Clearly the man, and that’s unfair. If you’re not getting an orgasm, then they don’t deserve one either, so just don’t have sex with them.

By the way, this won’t end up with you not being able to have sex at all, because like I said, many men are desperate enough that if they have no other choice but to work hard on a woman’s pleasure, they WILL.

Also. If a guy is selfish in bed. Shame him & tell your friends so that they won’t waste their time with him. Hopefully, being shamed for not working hard in bed, will decrease other men’s chances of doing the same, at least if they want to get laid.
I'll ensure that the girl gets MORE pleasure than the guy in my hookups
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I'll ensure that the girl gets EQUAL pleasure as the guy in my personal hookups
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I'm not going to work to ensure the girl gets as much pleasure as the guy in my hookups.
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I'm not into hookups but in my relationship, I'm not going to work to ensure the girl gets equal pleasure as the guy
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I'm not into hookups but in my relationship, I'm going to ensure the girl gets EQUAL pleasure as the guy
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I'm not into hookups but I'm going to ensure the girl gets MORE pleasure than the guy
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I don't engage in heterosexual relations.
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  • I'm gonna make it look impressive but not give a shit how much pleasure she gets. Shame me? Shit, I'll post your nudes to your moms Facebook page. Try me.

  • I'll try to give the girl as much pleasure as possible. That may be less, it may be equal, it may be more. Pleasure isn't quantifiable anyways.

  • it should be fun for both of us. if I just use her to get off and don't care... then I will feel shit and have a bad conscience

  • for me personally the sex does not stop until both parties are fully satisfied. im not gonna stop until she is exhausted from orgasming.

  • That depends on the Dom she is with...

  • why all topics from women are about either sex, relationships, a problem with some guy who is already taken and who always happens to be hot, clothes, buying and buying clothes?

    • ... but back on the topic, orgasm or not, promiscuous sex is still promiscuous.

  • I was down for some oral on a random woman until I became a MGHOW!

  • I could make you orgasam over and over

  • The girls I hookup with always get more pleasure. I got a lot of endurance so 90 percent of the time they orgasm first

  • you talk about men working hard in bed, but are you contributing too? should we shame women for laying there like dead fish?

  • This made me realize guys are sluts...

  • I already did my first hookup lasted 4 nights before i found out from her flatmate she had a boyfriend.
    I didn't do everything right but I definitly put the effort in and i had the stamina and energy to back it up honestly I just did everything the she wanted not particularly wild positions mostly variations on missionary and some holding her up which was really hard to maintain and she was really digging her nails in. I was 18 she was older and I guess I wasn't particularly confident socially and i think as a result I had it in my head that i had to be good in bed and i performed multiple orgasums nail marks on my back and ass, multiple condoms used, mones, horny grins. I'm still quite proud of my performance even though i'm not proud that i helped someone cheat but I think it did help with my confidence.
    The second we found out we knew a lot of the same people after wards and I think she was embarrassed about that or just wanted it to be one night or something? Also i got blue body paint on her bed witch she wasn't happy about so that didn't last as long or go as well.

  • Why do you hate on guys so much?

    • riding hot guys cock carousel (players) has its price.

    • I'm not? I actually talked specifically to girls in this post & said it's partially girls' own fault. @realityphil I don't ride the "cock carousel." I'm voluntarily celibate.

    • voluntary celibate? then you're a... vocel LOL

  • how come I've had this issue only once
    and even then i made her cum
    she was just one of those girls that takes long
    a little to long lol

  • I've given waayyyyy more then I've received.

    But I don't do that as much now because most women don't even like it.

    • Also really this is about girls choosing hookup partners. As a young woman, you can list the exact sex acts and order you want them in and get volunteers. -most/ guys can't get hookups at all. If you care about him not being selfish, pick a bit selfish guy. Most women seem to prefer to hook up with guys who are narcissists though.

  • The real reason 70% of women can't achieve orgasm is because you guys need at least 7+ inch penis penetrating you to get you off and the average male isn't packing that, Similar to how women prefer guys over 6'0"+ but not all guys are that tall; only takes 1 man to impregnate many women. So nature makes it so some men fall short of the ability to do this and their appeal to the woman is their ability to provide.

    www.dudedump.com/.../...ncut-dck_52cffce4bd0b9.jpg

    If Hispanic guy above with a large penis was pounding the pussy out, all y'all girl would be cumming within minutes.

    • No... I'm short up there and so are lots of girls.

    • Very interesting comment-----Man you just turned the tables upside down. How people will react to your comments , I just want to wait and see. It would be fun to see what people say.

    • Actually you are wrong, most women want betwen 6-7 inches, some want less, few want more. And most of those women will tell you thickness matters more

  • Lol nah. If that's how you're thinking, you surely don't deserve to cum.

    Refraining from sex is not gonna do anything because either way, you're still receiving jack shit.

    "Not orgasming because you're enabling casual sex"? That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard. If you were do disable' casual sex, you'd still not orgasm. Enabling both casual and passionate sex is not mutually exclusive.

    You already have 2 holes and a clit. What more would you like? The gent's orgasm is probably a fourth of the sensation of yours.

    If you're so thirsty for orgasms and so focussed feel good, why don't you go ahead and pleasure yourself?

  • This is literally the stupidest thing I've seen so far. Shame men for not making YOU orgasm. YOU control YOUR body, not someone else. And how would you feel if a guy went around telling all of his guy friends you were an easy fuck? He'd be shaming you for putting out like you would be shaming him.

    • So do men not want women to have casual sex with them?

    • I don't do casual sex. If women want to have casual sex, it should be their own decision, not because men want it