Mother/son roleplaying?

My boyfriend is wonderful, and lately he has been expressing fantasies of calling me Mommy, and wanting me to "feed him" my boobies as he calls them. He says he wants me to hold and comfort him, basically baby him but no diapers or things like that. I've tried googling it, but only find infantism, which isn't what he wants, he basically wants to be like a 12 year old who is too close to his mom. Any advice on this? Any idea what its called, if anything. And I want to make him happy, just trying to understand. Thank. Please no judging.
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  • Wow, just a thought, he is acting out what he may have encountered at some point in his child hood. If you truly care about him, first ask about his mom when you are out of the bedroom also any other women in his life, sister, aunt, friends when he was a child even the babysitter. Perhaps while out walking or in a sit down style bring things up in conversation about friends that have been molested, or something you might see on tv. Trust your gut on this, this is not a fetish that comes out of no where this is something he developed, the question is why did he develop this. It does not sound healthy at all, in the end seek professional help as you can only assist in bringing out the controversy that is surrounding him that he probably hasn't even thought of or isn't even realizing it, he may not even remember what happened until you speak about different things. Tread lightly and do not accuse him as he might get upset, good luck.

    • lol

    • That's a bit too much of a reaction for me, I am roleplaying with my girlfriend all possible fantasies including being a 12 year old boy. It was very sexy for me and I had never been molested or anyting like that, I just liked to try being in that position. It's also not "not healthy", it's whatever, if it doesn't hurt no one, why not. Discuss fantasies and never shame anyone for any fantasy, it only makes fantasies stronger and repressed. Especially there is no need to seek professional help if there hasn't been any rape, it's a fetish that CAN come out of nowhere:D

  • Don’t worry about what to call it! Just do it and have fun! My husband and I just recently started doing this and it’s HAWT. To learn more I’ve been reading articles on it and watching mom/son porn to learn more about what to say during sex. I told my husband to send me his 3 favorite mom/son videos. I learned a lot! He likes mommy porn where the son forces his mom to have sex with him but in the end she enjoys it. He also likes it when the mommy takes on the role of teaching him about sex and showing him how to do it. I was really nervous about my acting abilities! LOL My husband never had kids and he’s kind of obsessed about the idea of getting me pregnant and he’s turned on by pregnant women. I came across GirlsAskGuys in my search for ideas. I hope this helps! I’m open to ideas as well!

  • Maybe he has mommy issues. Also it depends what he's into, maybe it just turns it on. Some people look to sexual relationships to fill a void in their life that left them feeling empty, so it could totally be mommy issues, just like some girls date older men because of daddy issues. I've asked an older guy once to pretend that I was his daughter and that I was acting wild told him to beat me. He just responded with "Well I don't hit my kids, but I'll pretend that you're too hot and need a spanking!" It depends wether or not you're into it as much as he is. YOu should both be comfortable.

    • I think that is part of it, but not the whole thing. His Mom is nice, but very emotionally distant. So I know he is more needy for my comfort... The sexual aspect of it has just got me confused. I don't want him to be thinking of her when he is with me. Make sense?

    • Yea, honestly I would feel kinda uncomfortable in your position, I would discuss it with him and just question his sexual desires until you both can validate them...is he significantly younger than you?

    • No, he is actually a year older than me. I should just suck it up and ask him more questions, I just don't want to make him feel judged. But I'm going to have to do it I guess haha

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  • Not sure what fetish this would be called. It's probably closest to infantilism, since it has to do with a mother/son role, and taking care of him. While he doesn't want to play a baby, it's close to the idea. He's just not into the whole diaper thing, which is another fetish that combines with this one.

    If it's called anything, it's roleplaying.

    It makes sense though. Freud has described the Oedipus/Electra complex, which essentially explains that we are looking for a mother/father figure for a partner. It's not that hard to imagine, because we all want to be comforted by the one we love, to be taken care of, to be loved. It's just something that transfers over from your childhood to your adulthood.

    So this fetish makes sense and isn't anything to be ashamed of. Many people have far stranger fetishes. As long as these fetishes don't interfere with daily life or your relationship.

    • Thank you so much for the nice answer :) I want to make him happy and it doesn't really creep me out, so I'm going to try it. I'm just really inexperienced with this concept. haha. :)

  • When I was single, there was this one particular gal I was dating. We'd get back from the movies or whatever our date was, and sit in her living room for awhile. On several occasions, she'd pat her lap and quietly say, "Come here, baby." She would let her loose top loosen just a bit more, pat her lap- beckoning my head to be nestled on it- and lean forward just a touch. Not enough to let her breast smash into my face. No: just enough to let her nipple graze my face and waiting mouth. She would stroke by hair, I would contentedly suc - excuse me, er, I have to go take a cold shower.

    • You are really lucky to have such a partner.

    • You are lucky to have her

    • @Khatam_kardunga Yes - those were the days!

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  • i think its called incestual

    • Yes immoral disgusting sick and dirty completely.

  • Some great advice you have had
    I had same with my hubby and after got used to it, it has been erotic and hot
    His mum was wonderful lady a typical plain Jane woman with Hollywood perm of 30s films tad over weight but curvy. They had great pally relationship
    When he told me of his like for stockings and girdles we discussed it and why. It came from her wearing them and he saw a lot
    I was fortunate to talk to her about it eventually and got great advice from her
    I later became pregnant and her advice was great.
    Son is 20 now so the fantasies still happen and I have opened up to him about mine

  • It’s called MDLB, or mommy dom:Little Boy and it falls into the category of age play. It has nothing to do with sexual arousal towards his mother, but more likely a failed attachment in infancy that manifested itself in prepubescent stage. Role playing can be healthy and is often suggested by couples counselors or sex therapists. The important thing is to establish boundaries and make sure both of you communicate your desires and limits. And awesome for you not being close minded about this

  • RUN!!!

  • You are awesome ! All I want is a girl who’s into that! Your man is lucky. Keep at it there are lots of mommy stuff u can do many that are common to most men. Such as using my moms panties to jerk off into , so many men ask for custom videos with that. Another is getting caught by mom while watching mommy porn. Another is mom telling her son how bad at sex your dad is and how fast h comes and how bad she needs sex, one thing leads to another. Yet another involves a boy and how his mom, mom asked why you always jerk off so much why not get a girlfriend, but her son is new to sex and comes so fast he is afraid to have a girl laugh at him so mommy helps her boy become a man with her sexual guidance in order so her boy can please any woman, my mom sexually abused m e , one result is that I can only get aroused by mommy son play now wish there was a site for men and women looking for that

  • Uhm. This is gonna sound kind of weird. But I am a girl. And im the one who likes to be called mommy. I actually have a son who is 15 months old and still breastfeeds. when me and my hubby are getting it on, I just fantasize in my head, that he is like 15 years old, and Ijust picked him up from like football ppractice, take him home and have to fuck him before daddy gets home. I like him to suck on my breasts. Call me mommy. Beg, me.. I know, for me any ways, tthat's itsnot incestual.. I would never.. NEVER ttouchmy own child in that way... I think iit's my sympathyfor my husband. Hegrew up in foster care and never had a mother. And ever since we started dating, he would say "I like how motherly you wrwt" aandsstuff like that. Maybe I'm trying to fill the gap, but ended up the one who likes it. Lol maybe tthat'swhat he is doing in one way or the other.

    • I think it is healthy and even sexy to think that way, but worry about it ever happening. Gotta be careful but enjoy the thoughts

    • I respect your honesty. We all think of taboo things at times

  • This is a not uncommon fetish among men. Your boyfriend worships the mother archetype. Just be assured, when he's engaging in this fantasy, he's not for a second thinking of his real mother. He's completely dissociated from his real mother to indulge his erotic fixation on the archetype through you. Of all the weird fetishes out there, you should probably be relieved that this is the one your partner ended up with. My only concern is that the fetish represents an overidealization of the mother figure, which can make him susceptible to women who may want to take advantage of his Madonna complex.

    • To clarify, men who engage in this roleplay are never thinking of their real mother.

  • It's called Age Play and you can learn a lot about your "little" if you visit FetLife. com. I'm a little and I love to roleplay daddy/daughter. Also you can google age play and there's a lot of information out there, but a lot people still think it's taboo. Although, age players would never do anything to harm anyone like that.

  • I think it is good that he speaks with you about it. Try it and see how it goes. Good for you

  • Those people who didn't receive mother's love or had issues or faced tragedies in childhood need this. Go ahead and do it.

  • Just love him as he likes

  • Years ago, my girlfriend and I were laying in bed discussing fantasies and such and I mentioned that when I was in my teens I had a few dreams about my mom.
    She asked me about them and we discussed them.
    A few nights later we were having sex and when she felt that I was close she gently placed her hands on my ass, pulled me deeper into her, looked me in the eye and softly said " C'mon Baby. Fuck Mommy. Cum in your Mother's cunt" ( All part of one of my dreams), I was surprised and she just looked at me and said ," C'mon Honey Fuck your Mother" We just kept fucking and I came SO hard.
    Afterwards I asked her " What was that? She smiled and said " I knew you'd enjoy it"

  • Hi, it sounds like you and your boyfriend have a good relationship, you sound like an open minded loving person. I’ll bet by the time you read this you will have already “solved” the issue. Be well !

  • as long as it does not turn into reality.