Multiple pregnancy scares?

[Anonymous]

So we are on our 4th pregnancy scare he4 period is late. She is not on birth control we have condoms but dont use them. We live with her sister who was fed up with us the last scare. We told her we will be more responsible. We have not told her sister. Because she dont even want us having sex from the last 3 scares. She said we are childish. She shouldn't be allowed to control us having sex right?

[Anonymous]

So love these dumb couples who do this!

All the chances yet you continue to have unprotected sex and get pregnant!

Bet your probably leaving her with her sister if your a father!

Just get her on something you dummy course her sister is sick of her being worried and scared! Your just ignoring her and her sisters feeling for your own dumb sex need!

Got a fetish for her scares? Worrying her and her sister or just want her pregnant! The only thing that comes with no pill or IUD or no condoms!

[Asker]

Ok im sorry your right im not dumb and i wouldn't leave her. We are mad her sister is trying to control our sex life though.

[RoseySaraah]

She is not trying to she is trying to keep her sister from a big worry and scare of having a baby! Your sex life is just what will cause it! She would so care less about that if her sister was not scared and worried! It's stressing her out!

[Asker]

@RoseySaraah ok so do we follow her sisters lead and fully abstain grom. having sex?

[RoseySaraah]

Yes till you can do it without risking pregnancy! Also condoms is still sex lmao! Get her to a doctor like anon said for pills it's not scary or harder then a baby screaming for 19 years

[Asker]

@RoseySaraah her sister said to us the 3rd pregnacy scare that we need a semi permenant form. We have condoms but dont use them. Why I don't know we dont

[RoseySaraah]

Then get one what more do you want? Maybe your girl likes the scares? The attention or just getting to brag about the sex? Talk with her get her something to stop it! Don't let baby fever get her a baby! Your all 3 so not ready and should not have one! Take charge don't be a Mr nice rug

[Opinion Owner]

So bet she was mad! Spill how did she react to you two being dumb again?

[Asker]

She freaked!!! We lied about having sex after the last scare. She said we obviously dont learn or tespect her. She said she shoukd kick us out. My girlfriend started crying. She told us we follow her lead to a T from now on we obviously act like 2 children that need supervision. She said there will be no sex!!! Follow the punishment or move out she knows we can't move out.

[RoseySaraah]

Move out you both are children! Can't even stop from making another

[Asker]

@RoseySaraah move out where in the street? We are children im not denying our thinking.

[RoseySaraah]

Lmao your 36 Just get her on a pill so easy! Or uti

[Anemone978]

Why are you having pregnancy scares when you are in your late 30's.. If you can't even afford to take care of yourselves (I am assuming you are living in the sisters place) why are you being so reckless to maybe bring a baby into the world that you clearly can't afford or raise right since you can't even put a condom on your dick...

[Asker]

We live in her house yes and I don't know im nor making excuses honestly. We know the behavior is wrong but truth we dont do anything to correct it. We do make an attempt like before sex like grab a condom but it usually just sits there. I jave put one on a few times but the feeling sucks and she ends up telling me to. take it off.

[Anemone978]

So then why isn't she on birth control already? Like I don't know it just sounds like you 2 are dumb..

[Asker]

I mean i wasn't thinking were dumb but thanks. Shw was on the pill but kept forgetting to take it.

[Anemone978]

Yes.. grown adults not taking proper precautions to not get pregnant when you can't afford it seems pretty stupid to me.. or how old is your girlfriend because it sounds like she is a teenager, since her sister has to tell you idiots how to behave..

[Asker]

She is 29 and we never said mentally we are mature at all. We habe always been this way. If not with sex its money or jobs.

[Anemone978]

That proves you are dumb, don't you think? You have to be a troll there is no way someone is this blind LOL

[Asker]

What do you mean a troll? I never said i was blind we know the result of unprotected sex. Im not saying we dont at all. All i was saying is we dont follow it thats all. Forget it sorry i even posted anything.

[Anemone978]

It is because you just admitted you are fully careless in your lives, both of you, for jobs, money and everything... being a parent is a serious matter, I guess that is why I am annoyed at you for being reckless about it.. I had bad parents, so if you know you aren't capable of being a good parent and giving that kid the best you possibly can and to put their needs above your own then wear a condom and don't subject a baby to your 2 reckless lives because you 2 clearly aren't capable of giving it the best...

[Asker]

Your right and her sister basically said the same thing to us. She can't even understand why we put ourselves in this situation. She also got on us about jobs. We both ruined our credit so thats another issue. And your also right we aren't capable of havinf a baby as some have said here we shouldn't be allowed to reproduce.

[Anemone978]

I would suggest you two to break up.. because two stupid people together are always going to drag the other down.. at least if you guys dated someone smart you could possibly get your lives together..

[Asker]

Seriously? Break up i wasn't even thinking that at all. We are workong on things.

[Anemone978]

That would be my suggestion.. you would probably grow as a man alone.. because you will be forced to start figuring things out and not cause bigger problems..

[Asker]

I really dont wanna break up with her!!! Are we stuck in a bad place yes we are!! So can i ask your honest opinion are we immature? Like all honesty?

[Anemone978]

I know you are trolling... but yes I think you are both very immature..

[Asker]

What is trolling i dont get it? Trolling what?

[Anemone978]

You are just bothering people with fake questions to get a laugh.. just baiting people...

[Asker]

Fake questions to get a laugh not one person has laughed including you. And i have explained the situation. You make me feel like im the only one that had ever acted this way.

[Anemone978]

It is so you can laugh at us.. not so we laugh at the question but nvm... Well it is because of your age.. fair enough if you were like 16 or 17 but 36.. it seems a bit ridiculous to be acting that irresponsible at that age.. I will tell you what my dad been telling me since I was 12... "Grow Up"!

[Asker]

And her sister screamed it at us last night!!!

[HelpfulWoman]

you two are honestly the reason people shouldn't breed.

[Asker]

Seriously thats a little harsh no?

[HelpfulWoman]

No. Because you're being a fucking idiot and so is she. Hence, you shouldn't breed. The sis isn't wanting to control your sex life, she just wants you guys to take a fucking hint and wrap it up. You have it and its available to you. Plenty don't even get that choice. I hope the sister kicks the dumbasses you are out to the curb, at least she has self respect and a shred of intelligence

[Asker]

Your right we are not treating her fair. No chance of breeding her sister freaked on us. Sex is done we were told if we even think of having sex we can get out.

[LazerBean]

If you live in your sister's house, that she can control whatever she feels like. And you are childish. If you don't want to get pregnant, then do something intelligent to prevent it.

[Asker]

Yes we live in her house but we didn't think she has a say over our sex lives though. Or put a end to us having sex.

[LazerBean]

She can make up whatever rules that she wants. Because it is her house. And if you are not going to grow up and be intelligent, then she should kick you out.

[Asker]

I dont want her to kick us out honestly i dont. So me and my girlfriend are talking and maybe we should stop having sex.

[LazerBean]

Oh you aren't even married? She's been much more gracious than I ever would be, so yeah you better be good to your sister.

[Asker]

No were not married ok let. me. ask yoir honest opinion. If you were the sister woukd you eliminate sex?

[LazerBean]

Absolutely, I would never let a sibling live with me at all if they were engaging in extramarital sex.

[Asker]

I figured and were also loving on her house. But i figurrd since were adults it shouldn't matter if we have sex in her house.

[LazerBean]

Of course it still matters.

[Asker]

We are telling her about this pregnancy. scsre and officially abstaining from. sex.

[LazerBean]

Good for y'all, that's the right thing to do.

[Asker]

I know and after reading tye responses were not mature enoigh even as adults to be having sex!!!

[Alexz0]

No, it's not her business.

[Asker]

Ok how do we argue that?

[Alexz0]

You just tell her.

[Asker]

Tell her what we want to have sex?

[Anonymous]

This is ridiculous and so unnecessary.

[Asker]

Ok but how so i mean ok i get its probably not ideal but.

[Opinion Owner]

She needs to be on birth control.

[Asker]

We are working on that.

[Anonymous]

Pregnancy scares happen when you don’t use any kind of birth control. Are you at least pulling out? Her sister is probably annoyed that you’re risking pregnancy when it appears you cannot even afford to live on your own. Just saying…..

[Asker]

I am not pulling out no her sister knoes we can't handle a baby financially or even maturity level wise. She feels eliminating sex is what needs to be done.

[Opinion Owner]

I’d just eliminate you both from my house and let you figure out life on your own tbh.

[Asker]

No we dont want that to happen seriously we dont.

[Opinion Owner]

Why should she be responsible for you both when you aren’t being responsible for yourselves?

[Asker]

I don't know to he honest she shouldt be your right but she said she feels like we aren't being mature and that wouldn't be fair to a unwanted pregnancy.

[Opinion Owner]

She’s right. You need to be able to give a baby the best that you can. That means at a minimum…a living wage, a suitable home, health insurance and the maturity to put the child’s interests first. Put the condom on and you both can fuck like rabbits until you’re ready for that.

[Asker]

All honesty we can't offer any of that just being open and honest. And as far as the condoms she is past trusting us with them. She dont want us having sex at all.

[Opinion Owner]

That’s because you’ve demonstrated you can’t be trusted. Instead of trying to control your sex life though, she ought to just stop enabling you.

[Asker]

What do you mean enable us how?

[Opinion Owner]

Giving you a home removes hardship and gives you a safety net. There’s less urgency for you to be responsible.

[Asker]

Yes your right not going to deny that but she is not the type to throw us out. But yes in that way she is enabling us. She is pist we lied to her. And now a possibly pregnancy on top of it.