My 24 year old boyfriend says he’s too tired for sex at night. yet when he’s home masterbates at night. why is this?

[Anonymous]

We have three kids and he never stops trying for sex during the day when we can’t.

Then at night when I try says he’s too tired. He’s 24. And literally as soon as they are asleep even though he tried only an hour earlier is too tired. He claims he’s been up since 7 am and by 7 pm is too tired too.

He goes home two days a week and masterbates both of those days at night. Somehow not too tired.

Any advice?

[scentoflavender]

Sex and masterbation are too entirely different things. Yes they both end in an orgasm, but masterbation can be more relaxing than sex, perticularly if he's tired. Its an odd concept, i know. I struggled to grasp it for years when i was a newly wed. At his age, however, he should have more stamina. Maybe he should consult a physician. My daughter and her husband had a similar issue, and it turns out my son in law was diabetic. When he got his health back on track, things inproved. Best of luck.

[HarryFortis]

He might be really tired. Masturbation is so easy. Don't worry he'll restore his energy and come back

[PeterSmith1983]

24 and to tired for sex... that's completely new to me...

[Asker]

Yeah but tries non stop during the day for a quickie.

[PeterSmith1983]

That's good I thought he lost his mind

[jjj101010]

Maybe he just wasn’t in the mood, I can relate to that, message me and I’ll explain

[Anonymous]

Well, his behavior is very selfish, but you need to discuss this with him. I see no reason why he can't meet you halfway.