My 50-year-old boyfriend wants to have sex with me multiple times a day. If I reject him he becomes super upset. Is it normal? ?

My 50-year-old boyfriend wants to have sex with me multiple times a day. If I reject him he becomes super upset. He is easily stimulated by nudity in movies. He also likes to watch musical videos with girls wearing very short skirts and showing their cleavage (which he said it is just for entertaining). We reached an agreement to have one sex per weekday and multiple times on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Now he is becoming upset again and he said why we restrict our sex in this way and we should have sex every time he is "in the moment". Is it normal?

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Superb Opinion
  • You of course can say no, he of course can be unhappy that his sexual needs aren't satisfied. Looks like you need to sit down and have a conversation with yourself. Would you be mad if he went elsewhere for the times you aren't in the mood? Would you rather break up? At the end of the day you aren't sexually compatible with one another, and on a long enough timeline he's going to have sex as much as he wants, it just may or may not be with you. If you've invested a lot of time at that point then it's going to royally suck, so maybe just cut your losses now and go find someone who is more in tune to your wants and needs.

Most Helpful Guy

  • He has a high sexual drive, it's not matching your drive. This can make a female feel more a a sex doll or slave if they start to get angry. He has to repect and understand that he don't own you and that there's more to a relationship the sex with no limits. It's your body you say when, how and how long and how many times. Watch him closely case he could be using you as a object to his fantasies. If he is respectful and looses limits or boundaries he may just want for sex. You want partner 50/50 and respectful of you boundaries. He getting mad shows little though of you and more of his need. Careful lady, demand respect and your boundaries respect its your body. If not move on to another man.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe he got rejected a lot in the past and has trauma about it. Also everyday seems a bit much like I'm basically a sex addict but wouldn't want it everyday or else it'd kill the thrill of sex

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Normal at certain times when libido is running high but as a regular ongoing thing? Nah, that's pretty excessive, especially if it causes him to become upset. Homeboy might need to get his emotions in check.

  • He is a hirny guy that expects sex when he demands it meh

  • A bit odd, in my opinion, and I REALLY like sex... Tell him to jerk-off... sounds crude, but he sounds a bit dense toward you.

  • We want sex when we want it and that is normal.

  • That he thinks himself entitled to you whenever he wants? No, I do not consider that normal. High drive or not, he does not sound like he is very considerate of you.

  • He can’t just watch for fun if he has you in his life, that’s disrespectful

  • Yes, that's normal, have fun, you're lucky😉

  • I once fucked my boyfriend 10 times.