My baby daddy has a finance that is a sex worker?

My baby daddy has a fiancee that is a sex worker. She sells her body online on only fans for 12.99 a month. I have a 4 year old daughter and lately she has been telling me that she feels ugly and have a melt down if makeup is not on her face and she wants to wear a short skirt and high heels even when it rains. I feel like my daughter is being negatively influenced by my baby daddy fiancée. Is there anyway I can get the courts to prohibit her from being around my daughter? My baby daddy see nothing wrong with his fiancée with his fiancé selling her body online and sleeping with different men and woman for work. He compares her to Kim K. I don’t want my daughter to grow up thinking it is okay to be a sex worker I would her to go to college like me and get a respectable job.

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  • Technically your child is safe in the house because if you own the house you have the rights to not let his fiance in, I think you should fight for full custody of the child tho so you can shun him from your life and your child life, are you sure she's what's effecting your daughter tho, she can have a bully, I recommend you look into that, she could be getting cyber bullied as well, I don't know how young your child is but if she is very young then they wouldn't think of physical attraction unless someone is putting something in their head so I recommend you keep an eye on your daughter and speak to her, keep in mind you are basically the only responsible guardian she has so you have to be deeply involved in her life, teach her the right and wrongs, teach her about confidence, teach her that people's opinions aren't important and if she's going to take criticism to take the constructive kind, teach her about natural beauty, teach her manners, teach her respect, teach her about self value, teach her about valuing others, teach her the life is valuable and precious and teach her about inside beauty, I know your mother instincts will kick in when they have too and you'll know what to do and when to do it, at this point you have to find out exactly where these negative emotions are coming from and you won't find the solution if you just jump to conclusions, find out what's causing this

Most Helpful Guy

  • And like you, get creamed by some shitstain? Ha ha ha.
    Be a proper mother to your child before you start crying to the government that some people are "bad influences" on your daughter. You don't live your life for yourself anymore, you wavered that right the moment you had her. Now you have a duty to bring up a proper member of society. You don't get to be a nice mom, a pushover just so she doesn't cry.

    Because of your choices, you need to be Judge Dredd. Judge, jury and executioner. You don't have the luxury to let the father be strict, because he doesn't exist, he's only some sperm donor.

    • What?

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm not sure about the legal action you can take but that's a shitty situation. Sorry about that.

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  • If he has equal parental rights, there isn't anything you can do unless you can prove that she's a direct threat to the wellbeing of your daughter.

    Do you still have feelings for the guy?

    • I hate when a mom expressed concern or what the father to be held accountable she is asked if she has feelings for the guy. This is why I am afraid to speak out on a lot of things he do. To answer your questions no I don’t have feelings for him, I have been dating my new boyfriend for almost 3 years now.