Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I have noticed, that some men on GaG have hatred towards women who are attracted to bad boys. What these men don't understand is that sexual attractiveness is created subconsciously and women have no influence on that. I am intelligent enough to know, that i have to blame nature not women...
Nevertheless, as you probably already know, I want to find out if there are women who are not at all attracted to bad boys, and if so, how many. I know that most people think that I should just relax and forget about this bad boy subject. But if I did, I would never find out the truth. Therefore, this is not an option for me.
The Bad Boy subject was the reason why I registered on GaG about 4 months ago and took a poll.
The result was:
At least, 41% of women claimed "that they never had a thing for bad boys.“
So why am I not happy with the result and live my life in harmony?
Outline:
1. Is there no such thing as a woman who is not at all attracted to bad boys?
2. The Bad Boy - Tinder Experiment
3. What impact will the results have on me
1. Is there no such thing as a woman who is not at all attracted to bad boys?
The problem is that I cannot trust women on this subject. Why not?
One woman wrote:
„I know guys think gangsters are sexy to us but they're really not, they come off as dumb, immature bullys.“
Elsewhere the same woman wrote:
“nothing makes me feel more wild and dirty and like a woman then tatted up black man who's straight out of prison“
These are literally two completely opposite statements. 🧐🤨🤷♂️
some women have claimed that they were only attracted to bad boys in movies/books/series etc. But to be honest, I don't believe that. Why should it be different in real life? It doesn't make sense to me.
I have talked to my sister about the bad boy topic several times. She has always been adamant that she finds bad boys "disgusting and nasty"!
But the other day she showed me a man on Tinder that she matched. She admitted that the fact that he looks like a bad boy makes him more attractive. I am confused. Does she find bad boys attractive or not? 🙄🤦♂️
I have more examples but I don't want this MyTake to become too long.
To make it clear, I don’t believe that my sister nor women on GaG deliberately lie to me in order to mislead me.
But for whatever reason, some women make very contradictory statements.
One woman put my concerns in a nutshell:
“I think […] there more women attracted to this kind of guy but don't want to admit it. I guess some women are afraid of being judged because of their preferences.”
A woman texted in my dm‘s:
„I think in a certain way we're more "the same" in what we want than men are. Like I can tell you that EVERY girl likes a bad guy“
Could this woman be right?🤔
Is there no such thing as a woman who is not at all attracted to bad boys?
I will find that out!
I have learned that there is no point in asking a woman whether she has a thing for bad boys because I can never know if she will tell me the truth or not. This leads me to generally question the statements of women on this topic. I don’t claim that they lie, but I also cannot claim that they tell me the truth. The only thing I know for sure is, that I know nothing at all.
That is why I need a different method than doing polls and asking questions on GaG.
I have to investigate the actions of women and not their statements. But how should I do this concretely?
I thought about it quite a bit until I had an idea. 💡
2. The Bad Boy - Tinder experiment
I'm not sure about some of the details yet, so here's only a simplistic procedure:
phase 1:
I will search on the Internet for an attractive man who looks like a "good guy" (i.e. likeable, friendly...) but of course manly and not like a pushover.
Then I will create a Tinder profile with this man and try to match as many women as possible.
Let's say a woman matches this "good guy":
This way I know that this woman is into good guys! But I don't know if she also has a thing for bad boys! Since I cannot read her mind, how do I find out if she is exclusively attracted to good guys and not at all to bad boys? 🤔
phase 2:
To find out, I create 20 more Tinder profiles with men who all look like bad boys (i.e. evil, aggressive...). This means that I have to get 20 SIM cards first, because I always have to enter a new phone number when I want to create a new profile 😒. But I will spare no expense and effort for my experiment. 💪
I will then also try to match as many women as possible with each of these bad boys.
A short time after a woman has matched the good guy, the first of my 20 bad boys is suggested to her as another match. If she also matches him I know that she is attracted to good guys, but also to bad boys.
If she rejects him there are 2 possible reasons for this:
1. she is not attracted to bad boys
or
2. she is (generally spoken) attracted to bad boys, but finds this specific bad boy unattractive
Just because she rejected one single bad boy doesn't mean that she is not attracted to bad boys in general! ☝️
BUT:
If a woman doesn't match a single one of these 20 bad boys, it is very, very unlikely that she is attracted to bad boys!
A calculation:
Assuming the average bad boy out of these 20 bad boys is perceived as attractive by 20% of women (I don't know if this is realistic. But since I will try to choose attractive bad boys I don't think it is overestimated. My friends, however, think that 20% would be quite high for a man. What do you think?)
So the probability that a woman finds a bad boy optically unattractive would be 80%.
The probability that a woman is attracted to bad boys but coincidentally finds every single one of these 20 bad boys unattractive and therefore rejects every single one of them is:
0,8 • 0,8 • 0,8 • 0,8 •.................. = 0,8^20 ≈ 0,0115
So only 1,15%
In other words:
If a woman matches the good guy but not a single one of these 20 bad boys, there is a 98.85% chance that she is just not at all attracted to bad boys 🙂
This is such a solid probability that it is high enough for me 👌
And then I can finally make my peace with this topic
3. What impact will the results have on me
If the results show, that almost all women, or even literally all women, are attracted to bad boys, I will definitely fake the bad boy image one day.
If not, then not 👌
What I have described here is only a preliminary idea. Maybe I will modify my experiment before I do it. Unfortunately I do not have time to do this experiment at the moment because it is very time consuming. It may take a long time until I will be able to do it. As soon as I have done it, I will do a MyTake about it.
What Girls & Guys Said
22 91. Why are you saying “secretly” attracted?
2. That is the ugliest pic of a guy you could have found, get real, woman care more about how men look than anything.
Some are for sure; I find if strange however that the guys that care about that are also the kind that desperately want to get with those same women... when they clearly aren't their type.
Bad boys should be tamed to learn some respect and show it and Good guys should learn how to grow a spine and stand up for themselves.
That's my take. Next.
Interesting
Women are attracted to powerful intimidating men who take control of themselves and situations around them, such men are confident and I think their acts of dominance and control really do have an effect on women
Bad boys happen to have such traits, which is what explains the heavy attraction
If you're a genuinely good guy and have those traits as well, you'd be pretty much the perfect man
Thank you :)
I mean the first thing you have to learn is women either dont know what they want, or they are ashamed and will lie. So the only way to proceed in life is STOP LISTENING TO WOMEN. All of them. Yes a few will speak the truth and be aware but if 1 in 100 women are legit how do you know the difference? Hmm. So stop it.
I more into good nice guys after all they are better than bad boys. Some women might but not me.
Be your self if they like you gpod if not move on
Nope not attracted to bad boys. Never have been. I want a good man.