My best friend (boy) told me he masturbates with photos I send him with my undies (not nudes). I don’t know how to react?

by the way he have a girlfriend which is my best friend (I know it’s wrong, but I still do it) (I am 16 years old)
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  • This is what we generally call a fuck up. If you don't jangle this right, you could loose two friends. You could tell him to stay the hell away from you and save your friendship with her. You could be a good friend and tell her, she will probably be mad at first, but it's not like you were trying to steal him. If she is reasonable, she will calm down eventually and maybe dump him. If not, it will ruin your friendship with her. Or, you could keep it a secret until she finds out and everyone's mad at everyone one.

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    • I don’t want to lose my two friends..

    • I think that she is you first priority as friendships don't survive after the friendzone.

  • So basically he's a typical dude and you're a typical stupid girl. Wtf Why would you send your undie pics to a friend? FRIEND?

    • You are right.. (btw best friend) I am an asshole😭

    • Look there's no such thing as "best friends" between a girl and a guy. He's a guy, and just because of that he'll always want to fuck you. Admitting that he wanks on your pictures means he's letting you know that he wants "it". I'm pretty sure you'll remain "best friends" just because you want it and my interference is futile, therefore I shut up. Good luck.

    • I will not talk to him anymore.. 😓 I feel bad of what I did. I don’t want to do it😔

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  • Don't know what else you'd expect for starters, if you're sending him pics like that what do you think he's gonna be doing with them haha. If you wanna carry on the way you are then I'd say I was flattered, but personally I've been cheated on and it's the worst feeling in the world. Imagine if you were in her shoes, how would you like it if you're best friend was doing that to you?

  • He's obviously been friend zoned. You have two options now: 1

    1. Do you like him? If so give him a chance because things can no longer go back to the way things were

    2. Let the friendship go. You know that you can never give him what he needs

    • I like him as a friend

    • Unfortunately you don't have that option anymore. It wouldn't be fair to him

    • So what do I do?😅

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  • Thats what you get for sending sexy pics to your friends boyfriend. Now deal with the consequences of your actions.

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  • So you send out child porn and then are surprised when it's used by another child as porn.

    I weep for the future.

  • Well, generally speaking...
    I'd say flattered would be a decent response.
    Your best friend might not be too thrilled to know what he's doing with a picture of you of all people, but still...
    Obviously don't do anything about this as long as her relationship lasts (if you feel attracted to him to start with).
    Well, that is unless she don't mind sharing...

  • You sent him pictures of yourself in your underwear? Why? I mean what did you expect to happen? Also really, your best friends boyfriend, your sending pictures of yourself in your underwear to him? Does she know? That's really messed up.

    • I know I did wrong, nobody is perfect. I will not do it again, I will tell him that I will not send him more pictures because I’m not a slut

    • Do so, its a really crappy thing to do to a friend and as I said, clearly you must have wanted this because you sent those pictures to him yourself, that's the impression any one reading this would get.

  • Why don't you ask him what sort of photos he would like, pose for them and masturbate him yourself while he takes the photographs? He sounds like a marvellous, devoted and sexy boyfriend to me.

  • well I guess your not a good friend and you already know you are wrong!! So you should probably do an assessment of your life and find a new friend because chances are she will find out and hate you for it!!!

  • at least respect his girlfriend... don't do that

  • Ok, I don't know why you sent him pictures of you in undies but I'll not argue with that. If it got to the point that he got comforable enough to tell you that he masturbate to your photos you probably gave him too much intimancy. He's your best friend's boyfriend, he shouldn't have this kind of liberty with you.
    Anyway, think about how you feel about it. Do you like that he does that? Do you feel flattered, indifferent or anoyed/insulted?

    • I feel insulted😓

  • Hahahaha you're loving this don't lie.

    "Awwww no this guy is attracted to the underwear pictures I send him. Oh my God why would he do this?"

    You send them because you want him to be attracted to you. And you're also the shittiest best friend ever. Your best friend would be better off without you and her shitty boyfriend in her life.

  • what did you expect honestly?

    • Sincerely, I don’t know

  • He wanna sex with you so he just went straight on things regarding masturbating..

    Its only sex in his mind about you.. and not love..

    • you have sent your undie pic to him.. how irresponsible.. can you sent it to anybody (I am sorry for my language).. if you will any body will reply like this..

    • Yes, it’s irresponsible. He hasn’t saved or took screenshot of the photos (Snapchat)

    • So.. he doesn’t like me. He just want to have sex?

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  • he is attracted towards you and wants to fulfil his desire which your frnd doesn't

    • So, I stop talking to him? Or what?

    • ya stop talking to him...

  • bitch tf stop being a hoe u dont do that shit

  • What did you think he was going to do with them? Sell them to Macy's for display ads?

    • lmao. Yes, I send a guy semi nudes and he gets turned on by them. WHY WOULD HE DO THIS?

  • clearly you like it and get a kick out of it

  • Why did you send? Do girls do that usually? :D

    • I like him

    • I would like you too :D but probably not the best idea from you i guess

  • She's your best friend and you're sending inappropriate pictures to her boyfriend? To your best friend's boyfriend? Oh wow the audacity to call her best friend.

  • Just tell him, "if you were my boyfriend, you wouldn't have to do that"
    If you don't like him say you're gonna tell his girlfriend