My best friend caught me masturbating?

My mom let him in the house without notifying me. I was masturbating in my room and he came up. He saw me and now everything is awkward. I wasn't in my sheets so he saw practically everything. He's 17 and decently experience so it wasn't like it was the first time he saw an undressed girl but the difference was that it's me. He won't even look me in the eye. How do I make everything go back to normal?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Just make a joke out of it. He is obviously awkward and its better if u just brin thue subject up but in a non-serious manner. It will only make it more awkward if its serious. Say somethin like 'hey remember that time u walked in on me. It was pretty awkward but its so funny now when u look back on it.' and then laugh about it. Somethin like that to relieve the tension and start to go back to normal again.

  • You have to get him to meet you somewhere, that's the first thing.

    Then you have to laugh about it.
    Trust me, he masturbates totally naked in front of his computer.

    It's a human thing. Even your parents (and his) do it.
    Human. Get together and laugh.

    If he won't laugh, he's either a fundamentalist Christian or he's got such a thing for you he can't see you without wanting you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Time... time and just being yourselves will make things go back to normal eventually.

    The bigger deal you make of it, the longer it will take.

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  • Yeah like what cheergirl said, just give it time and act normal and unfazed by it all. If you act normal and don't even mention it, he probably won't either.

  • Just talk to him about it or just talk to him period. He's your best friend, he'll get over it.

    • I tried to talk about it but he just got awkward and changed the subject.

    • I once saw my female friends naked, dressing in the band room, instrument room, by accident, but they were my friends and I loved them, so I got over it. :)

  • My guy friend caught me once, felt weird for ages after that

  • In the 10th grade, my friend, Heather, knocked on my bedroom door as I was on my bed jacking off. I said, come back in a few minutes. Just after she left; I ejaculated EVERYWHERE.

  • Just face him and tell him to get over it.

    • Basically just be like "get over it" you have masturbated before too.