My best friend tried to make a move on me?

My best friend and I were at my apartment drinking and we've been just friends for years. But while we were on the couch watching a movie she tried to kiss me and she felt me up over my pants but I kinda pushed her back a little and she just laughed and then we both eventually passed out. The only thing though is the next morning she (at least according to her) can't remember a single thing from that night not the advance she made or even the movie we watched! So I'm really confused cause I know alcohol can sometimes bring out people's true feelings. Does she like me more then a friend? Or was it more of an in the moment thing?
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  • She probably does have feelings 4 u but was 2 afraid 2 show them until she was 100% sure u felt the same... Or until she got drunk enough... If she really doesn't remember just keep things as is but if she asks tell her about her advances especially if u feel the same way … I had feelings toward my best friend but I didn't want 2 ruin anything in our friendship but I noticed he had a boner and I was kinda staring and he started kissing me so now he's my boyfriend lol … she's probably afraid of losing u as a friend bc I didn't tell my boyfriend I had feelings 4 him because I didn't want 2 lose him completely

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  • blame it on the alcohol.
    I've had times where i'd wake up and be like I really hope I didn't hook up with anyone. Or too afraid to look besides me. Alcohol intensifies feelings. You don't know if you dont ask her or if she does it again she likes you. if not it could of been in the heat of the moment anybody could become a target haha

  • Are things weird between you two now? If not, I'd just let it ride, and keep hanging out with her. I mean, you've already been hanging out for YEARS, so there must be... well, **something** there.

    Also, where are you, on this issue? If it turned out that she actually wanted to instigate something, would you reciprocate?

  • It could be that she likes you and was maybe using the alcohol as liquid courage. Or, she just could've been making a drunken pass at you. How does she act when she isn't drunk? Does she show any signs?

Most Helpful Guys

  • OK. The comment about her not remembering is b/s. I've had many of my female friends try to make moves on me and I usually push them off like you did. And they always want to try to say they don't remember. It's not true. They know exactly what was going on.

    It's perfectly normal though for a female friend to come on to you in my opinion. Hell I'm used to it. I don't think any different of them though. And yeah, she is interested in you in some way. Either just physically, mentally, or even both. May even just want to bang and that's it.

  • I think she likes you and is a little embarrassed because you didn't reciprocate the same feelings. You should either tell her you like her too or just tell her you don't see her that way (in a nice way of course ).

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  • She probably is at least attracted to you, but she's either embarrassed or was SUPER drunk.

  • She does want you. But when you rejected her advance it tail spun her. So the next morning she had regained her composure and said that she didn't remember so that things would go back to the way they were before the attempt

  • I think she likes you and the alcohol was a cover that way when you (inevitably) rejected her she could claim she was to intoxicated to remember and by extention could pretend nothing happened (she never asked and was never rejected) and preserve the relationship (hoping you would chalk it up to the alcohol and let it slide). So the question is are you interested in her or not? If not then you can play along, or if so then confront her about it.

  • Man I just posted a question about why girls keep guy's around that obviously want to phuck... You're a reminder to me that there definitely is 2 sides to everything.

    Come on dude... it's obvious why she's a hang-around. Do you 2 have common interests like real friends, or to do you two come up with things to do together? If movies is the common interest that brings you two together... then isn't it obvious she was interested in more than the movie bruh? Just saying.

  • It was an in the moment but a safe way to test the waters. Are you not at all attracted to her?

  • She was in the mood for dick, but since you're a homosexual, you denied her the opportunity.

  • Tell her your gay man like girls do to guys they don't want. She'll stop pursuing.

    • Haha if they've been friends for year she probably would know better already

  • She was drunk, feelings are intensified when drunk. But she remembers each and every thing she did that night just too scared to admit it.

  • No, she does remember. She just doesn't want to remember. She tried to make a move, didn't work out, RESET!

  • This is one you need to ask her, not us.