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My best guy friend keeps making penis jokes?

My best guy friend (and crush) has recently started making a lot of sex and penis jokes. His brother too but mostly him (they're super comfortable around me and my crush's brother is a bit socially awkward but my crush is not at all). He often makes jokes and glances at me - one he said something about being good at sex as a joke and looked at me. He's always been touchy feely with me and stuff but this is new. What do you think? He blames it on his "late at night my joke filter goes away" but yeah no this is not necessarily late at night.
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Also his friend made some joke about him not knowing what to do if I took him home (my poor choice of words when I meant dropping him off)... and instead of saying that was awkward (as I did) he started to protest in a "dude yes I would" kind of way.
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See comments below - is it possible to be unaware that you're sexy, do you think?
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  • I see two options, either he's into you, or he feel so comfortable around you that he deems this sort of jokes appropriate. Could be either really. I have a very close guy friend as well, and he constantly make such jokes around me. And I know for a fact he's not attracted to me XD Try being flirty with him and see where it goes. Maybe you could also ask his brother :)

    • He knows I deem them inappropriate and he apologizes but it's like he can't help himself and see comments above - this is the same guy - www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1211167-is-he-acting-like-we-are-together-do-you-think-what-do-you-think

    • Well, based on that I'd say he might very well be into you :)

    • How do you know for a fact he's not attracted to you lol? Some of us guys are rather good at hiding feelings lol...

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  • This is planting the seeds of ideas in gals ploys
    + getting your reaction post-"joke" = how progress is going with you
    They fear going too far = you make a U-turn and those seeds get thrown out, them also
    so they turn up the heat gradually, hoping you'll either chime in top make conversations hotter or more easily give in someday when the sex time is ideal

    • What if I keep telling him to stop because it's obnoxious? He's like "sorry my joke filter disappears when it's late" but he didn't use to do this.

    • Won't stop then lies about it immaturity knows no fences Think... dry humping little dog on your leg... now think... he's just like that dog and his little friends too

    • He's not that bad but I'll talk to him and tell him I'm serious about him needing to stop.

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  • Simple answer: He wants to fuck you.

    • Straightforward but seems accurate - this is him as well - www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1211167-is-he-acting-like-we-are-together-do-you-think-what-do-you-think

    • And from that other story, he seems to massive crush on you. He likes you and wants to fuck you. But I think he fears rejection which might explain his lack of initiative.

    • I think he fears rejection and so do I lol. thanks for the help and by the way what's the username from?

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  • No way, he is into you. Clearly. A lot. He is just trying to get you to initiate some kind of sexual contact or discussion. 100%

    • No way what? And he knows I'm the opposite of slutty and respects that (and other things) about me thank God - and he knows I'm not really into sexual conversations generally speaking. So I don't quite understand what he's doing unless he like wants me realllly badly or something.

    • yep. He doesn't know how to deal with how sexy he sees you as. Guys always do this, especially when they're young. He is just nervous to broach the subject. You already told me that you're a really cool chic by what you've said so far, any guy would be nervous thinking about asking you to take your friendship to the next lever. It won't help if your pretty, either. Which, I'll bet, you are beautiful. That'll make him on the verge of panic when he just sits next to you.

    • Haha thanks, why do you think I'm cool? And is it weird that I don't really see myself as sexy at all? Guys never call me hot etc. - I don't know he always ends up by me or me with him and his leg is always jumping up and down and he claims he's cold but still. And he always leans towards me and has this thing about me touching his hair ("feel how soft my hair is!") - like maybe it feels good for me to touch his hair/head, I don't know. He's started putting his hand over mine when I do. I get described as beautiful most often and sometimes pretty or gorgeous, thank God. Rarely sexy or hot so I don't think of myself that way - maybe beautiful in a "look a beautiful flower" kind of way.

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  • He's using them to test the water, and you're sending back 'friends only'

    • How, by telling him to stop making those jokes? (He knows I don't like jokes like that or crude stuff in general.)

    • Correct. He doesn't know how to flirt, and he's trying to test non-platonic thoughts to see if you react positive or negatively, and you react negatively.

    • Also one more - do you think I'm right that he's thinking about sex (with me) when he sometimes looks at me with this oddly heavy-lidded gaze (I've noticed when he's talking about something sex-related he will sometimes look at me with that look on his face)?

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  • Yes, he IS into you. What are you going do, now that you know?

    Not knowing you that well, obviously, I would suggest making a clear advance, and if he rejects it (he won't) you can just say, 'Oh sorry, I wasn't thinking right'. This advice I've found works pretty well, provided you want to have a relationship with him.

    He's ready, are you?

    • What do you think is up with his brother - just being a dude? They both make sexual jokes. His brothers been doing it for a while though and I think it's bc he feels comfortable around me and it doesn't seem directed at me. My crush has just started and it's gotten more, uh, frank and it does feel directed at me or at least designed to get me to react. And I was shocked that he started agreeing with the guy (see update) rather than being like dude awkward she's my friend.

    • His brother, yes, it's a guy thing, especially being comfortable around you. Honestly, you have excellent insight!

    • Really? I appreciate that! I think I just know them really well. Although his brother has started to act a little overly concerned about me which kind of freaks me out bc am noooot attracted to him. But the jokes still seem done out of comfort.

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  • He wants you to be curious enough to 'try him'.

    • Sorry I didn't respond to this - it seems that way. Also one more - do you think I'm right that he's thinking about sex (with me) when he sometimes looks at me with this oddly heavy-lidded gaze (I've noticed when he's talking about something sex-related he will sometimes look at me with that look on his face)?

    • not sure if he's thinking about having sex with you.. but it usually means he wants to kiss you at the very least

    • Hmm makes sense thanks!

  • He wants sex with you is my first thought.

    • That's what I was thinking - I don't know he said last night and so did his brother that they have gotten to the point where they feel really comfortable with me ("it took us 3 years," his brother said) that they can talk about bro stuff and that it's a measure of closeness not of seeing me as a dude. Still suspect though.

    • You should remain suspect. Im sure he finds you attractive on top of being comfortable.

    • You know who this is right? lol forgot this was on anon.

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  • If he is ur truly best friend (crush) u won't b here complaining about that, if its that a joke (u its self told)
    If u know him very well, der u will surely get an idea what to do next.

    IF he is ur boyfrnd he is building up for solidifying the relationship. Thats all.

    • I don't understand the first part? (I do like him a lot - I just feel awkward when he discusses penis size with his friends and glances at me)

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