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My bestfriends little brother wants me? I want him too?

I’m 21 and i’ve known my bestfriend for about 8 years now. Her brother is about 3 years younger than us (he’s 18 now but i’ve known him since he was 10) &he has sexual feelings towards me. I first became aware of it when he was 15 & asked me if he could see my boobs. In the last 2 years, he’s touched me, caressed my body, told me i’m thick, kissed me out of no where (i was his first kiss), told me that i’m beautiful etc. I did eventually allow him to see my boobs and he’s sucked on them on 3 different occasions which he has initiated himself. The last time was during Christmas break when we ended up alone in the basement he began to touch me & kiss my body & try to put his hand down my pants he took my hand and put it on his dick so I could feel how hard he was through his pants. He did ask he to give him head but i declined due to the circumstance that everyone was in the house with us at the time. I’m just confused with his feelings. He’s struggled to get girls and i’m sure i’m his only experience to this date. So i’m not sure if he just wants me because i’m the only thing he can get at the moment. He’s 18 & still a virgin so i feel like he would fuck any girl given the chance, & there’s times where we will end up alone together but he doesn’t make any moves, or his body language is off. But then again it could just be because he is a bit awkward and has a lack of experience. Too me it’s more than sexual tension because i’ve known him since he was a kid and i do care for him & have love for him. I think about having sex with him all the time & being his first since we turn each other on & nothing ever comes out of it. I want to fuck him so badly and be his first and I’m always wondering if he ever fantasizes fucking me too. I’m just worried he doesn’t feel the same. But if he does, how do I go about it? Do i talk tohim? Do i make a move or wait for him to do it again? How do i let him know i want him? Thoughts on if he feels the same?
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  • I assume there can be two case for this situation and those two completely depends upon you

    What would you have done if you both were alone in home when you both were in basement

    Would you have allowed him to proceed further with having a sex with him

    1. If yes then I would suggest you to next time don't let him even touch your boobs

    If he will be still be fine with you then he might be in love with you

    If he made a little force to touch your boobs and do activities like this in another manner I would suggest you to repeat this step 2 or 3 times more

    If he is still fine and waits for you to be ready and then go for sex then he is in complete love from his side

    Else he will just fuck any girl he gets a chance

    2. If you wouldn't have allowed him to proceed further then you you both want both of them emotionally and physically


    My openion just got a way too long but would have been able to express more if we're in-person

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  • I think it's VERY safe to say that he wants to fuck you too and has definitely fantasized about it. The hard on you felt is a testament to that and I'm SURE he ended up jacking off picturing you sucking and/or fucking him and/or remember the look, feel and taste of your boobs.

    Does he want more than sex? Who knows? We have NO way of knowing. And to be straight with you, there's a good chance HE doesn't know either. But he IS attracted to you, he probably DOES like you beyond that given the fact that you've known each other awhile, he IS horny and does want to have sex or at least get off with a girl and he DOES want to do all of that with you.

    So what should you do? Who knows? If you really want to fuck him, you should go for it, but bear in mind that only a TINY proportion of ANY relationships between an 18 year old dude and a 21 year old chick go the distance. That doesn't mean don't do it, it just means be realistic, enjoy you time together while it lasts, be good to each other and learn from it.

    Good luck!

    • thanks for MHO!

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  • No you don't

  • You should tell him that you love and care about him, but if he wants to have sex he must prove himself by staying faithful and committed to you.
    Maybe after another year, of him being your boyfriend you can reward him with sex if you still feel the same way

    Good luck

  • I think you as the older one should talk to him. He wants you and you should keft him touch you and on the bright side you can be the controlling figure

  • Sure, he's an adult now, talk to him. Don't expect a forever, just enjoy the now.

  • He has already shown you his intention by sucking boobs and trying to touch you down as well as putting your hand on his wrapped dick. What else do you want to confirm? He probably has in mind that you have rejected him. He will surely have sex with any willing girl. Here you can come forward. Don't ask him any question or his intention, just take initiative by providing him opportunity where he can freely touch your boobs and pussy. You can encourage him by participating in love-sex-game. You both will sooner be able to involve in sex as both of you desire it.

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