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My bf calls me a bitch or a cunt and thinks it's ok. I keep saying its disrespectful! he says guys will say it too but are too worried about society?

I really don't get it when it comes to my boyfriends attitude He calls me a cunt or a bitch when he's feeling ok this is just normal conversation for him and it hurts my feelings It's not when he's angry or fighting about something :( he will Change and say things like "stupid cunt/dumb cunt/ugly cunt/funny cunt" etc... I told him its disrespectful and it hurts my feelings! He's like "other guys will say it to but he's but they all want to be role models of society which is pathetic. They care what other people think. You see I don't give a fuck" :/ why does my bf think it's ok? Why does my bf not care about what society thinks of him?
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  • If you can see the bigger picture, you will find this answer and many more:
    > you live in a different world than he does; I predict there's no bridge that will allow both of you to stay together unless one adopts the other world, never to return to their own
    > POOP runs downhill; these words are POOP dropped on his head (unknown to you) and thus must run downhill else he will drown in them... if downhill is YOU, then this is NOT a BF and you are just a toilet... compare now your perceived status compared to him (in his mind)
    > this guy is a follower NOT a leader, so following him e. g. "my BF" or he not following you = disaster, considering the idiots leading this parade; BF will NOT be steered away from following them except by a disaster and you... the toilet... have no chance of leading him anywhere

  • It's NOT normal in any way for a boyfriend to call his girlfriend those kind of names. It's verbal abuse and has nothing to do with society. No one is hiding anything by not calling their partner those kinds of names. He sounds like a very immature and disrespectful guy. Why are you still with him?

  • i HATE it when people say 'but everyone does it'. shows a lack of individuality and a fear of being different.
    u need to make it clear that it hurts u. if he isn't listening, I'm sorry but u gotta dump his sorry ass.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Is he... Australian?

    Alternatively, he's trying to individualize himself, but his means of doing so is kind of unhealthy. Most people find a talent or a hobby to make themselves feel special. He's intentionally fighting against the tide to achieve the same thing instead of finding something productive.

    Tell him that it matters to you that he would ever associate those words with you. If he says that he doesn't give a fuck... well, you get the idea.

  • Duh!!! Back up the Dump Truck, load him up and try again. You're in with a Neanderthal. No woman should be talked to like that. He clearly grew up in a home where women were at a maximum second class citizens. This guy makes Archie Bunker (I know, I'm aging myself) look like Isaac Friggin' Newton.

    • You don't need to be racist, geez...

    • My ex IS a cunt bitch. So some women definitely earn it. Tell him you hate it. Or call him mini dick in public until he gets a clue.

    • @Wakadoodle Please identify precisely where you see any racism in my comment!!

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  • If he said it out of anger or while you were actually being a bitch, I could let it slip but to just called you that in normal conversation is definitely disrespectful and I couldn't give a fuck what society thinks.

    Tell him to stop immediately or you'll leave him for a guy who doesn't swear at you.

    • call* not "called"

  • If he continues to do it you should get rid of him because a bf/gf should listen and stop behaviors like that because it affects you comunication is the number one thing that relationships should have

  • And you're still dating him? Raise your standards

    • Possible troll alert

  • Who cares what society thinks of him? What he thinks of you is what's important. If he doesn't respect you, he doesn't deserve you... it's that simple. Dump this asshat and give yourself some respect. The words don't matter... what matters is that you're asked him not to use them, and he doesn't care.

  • He thinks it's okay to disrespect, why are you still with him? He said he doesn't give a fuck what you think, you are part of society.

    • I thought I could change him :(

    • I understand, we all do that._. The only reason why people want to change, is if they want to change themselves. That includes wanting to change for you.

  • you wana know the best way so he never calls you again like that, severely warn him 1 tym to not call you like that. nd if he do 2nd tym ( ofcorse he will ) then pretend to be angry on him by dont talking him, some days or a week, he'll be back to you with a sorry nd will never call like that again :/
    its such a disrespect :/

    • This is a really good way to get your misbehaving boyfriend in line. Thumbs up

    • yea it is :P i did it to my misbehaving gf :D

    • she didn't said me bitch :P but she used to be rude

  • He's just an idiot.

  • My bf sometimes calls me that but only in private.

    • I am an Aussie and use of the word cunt is incredibly varied!

  • I won't lie sometimes when a women really pisses me off I want to, but I won't not because of society though, I could give two flying fucks about society. But I won't say it because it goes against my morals and values. In my opinion leave him, if he is going to talk to you like trash then why should you put up with it? your not obligated to stay with him or put up with his attitude.

  • is he Australian?

  • Just dump this vile human being.

  • Ditch the scum and find some one that respects you

  • He apparently doesn't give a fuck what you think either. Get rid of the loser.

  • it's fine, just do everything a man says

  • The fact that you're still with him makes you "stupid" which is worse than the C-word.

    • I broke up with him k

    • Good for you !!

  • To me it depends on the context, the word can be used in so many ways.

    • I think your boyfriend needs to listen to you more and perhaps explain himself more.

  • You sure know how to pick em don't you

  • ew break up with him asap.
    a lot of people get blinded in a relationship and mistake their own comfort and fear of leaving for true love and connection.
    if you're uncomfortable with the way he's talking to you, which DUH YOU SHOULD BE HE SOUNDS LIKE A JERK, then leave him and find somebody who treats you like the respectable woman I'm sure you are.

  • he is such a dumbass. he should be polite to you, you are his gf.

  • I ts just not nice?

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