My boyfriend doesn't feel like vaginal sex. Why?

Whenever we are ready to sex everything ohk. But as he sees we are ready for vaginal sex he loses his desires/arousal. why this happening?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It sounds like it could be that he's nervous or feels pressure to perform well for you. It could also be a medical problem (not extremely likely, but it's definitely a possibility) or something else. I would suggest talking to him, NOT right when you're about to have sex, but at a more neutral time. You can say something like "hey, can I talk to you about something? I really like being intimate with you and it's amazing. Lately it seems like you might not be enjoying vaginal sex as much." and then you can ask him if there's something you guys can do differently, or if you can do something that makes it more enjoyable for him, or whatever else you might want to know or address.

  • I dated a guy who liked BJ's a whole lot more than vaginal sex. He also preferred hand jobs over sex too.

    What DOES your man like?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Best advise I'd say is just talk with him and figure out what is going through his head at that moment that he loses it.
    See if there is something different you two can try or something you can do differently.
    Do you have the lights on? Lights off?
    Try different positions? Try putting a blindfold on him?

  • He's defective. Hopefully he's still under warranty, so you can take him back for exchange or repair.

    Every so often, the factory turns out a dud. It seems that you were the unlucky person to get the dud.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Lack of confidence/fears that he won't be good enough for you
    Fear of getting you pregnant
    Shyness

  • He’s afraid he can’t satisfy you

  • I don't know maybe slap his dick around?

  • He prefers anal/bj or he might be gay

  • justagirl106 has some good thoughts, agrees with what I was going to say.

  • u probably have a ugly minge

  • You must be did something wrong.

  • He is probably nervous

  • Maybe he is afraid of leaving you pregnant.

  • Is he gay?

  • Only he knows. So you should talk to him about it.

  • Not sure. 😕 i love vaginal sex why wouldn't he? That's odd.

    • I just checked your profile pic. Now i really want to know why not. Damn you are fine.

  • He is probably nervous. He can do work out to stay hard and last longer.

  • Does he loose his erection or finds some excuse for not having sex with you

    • Yeah

    • Then he has erectile dysfunction which needs to be treated

  • Maybe he's ill.

  • Well there could be a few reasons maybe he's not attracted to you or doesn't like sex with you those are the only reasons I can think of

  • You tried anal?

  • Ask him

  • Maybe its fear of pregnancy

  • Men are gay as fuck. They like dick and asses and assholes, that’s it.

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