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My bf doesn't know what to do with my pussy?

I've showed him what I do with it I have an outie pussy and I've shown him where my clit is and I'm constantly teaching him how to give me lick outs the way I like it yet he can never find my clit! It's really starting to annoy me it's been like 6 months since he started going down on me and it's making me feel like crap coz I feel like he can't find any of my sensitive bits coz there's so much skin in the way he's obviously just used to being with tiny pussies coz everything easier to find on them I'm really starting to get insecure with him going down on me I'm fed up teaching him and showing him what to do
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The problem is NOT your pussy - it's your boyfriend. I've been with girls with every kind of pussy, and I've never had a problem "making it work." But the guy has to have a bit of knowledge (which you've been good enough to give him) and he has to be willing to MAKE AN EFFORT to do it right, which is where the problem seems to be.

    Perhaps he doesn't like giving oral, or perhaps he's simply not willing to make much of an effort. If you've talked to him about it, and shown him where to lick, etc. and he's still not getting it right, you need to talk with him and ask him "Why isn't this working?" and get an honest answer from him. Perhaps it isn't what you want to hear, but you need to start off with the truth, and only then will you know how to handle it.

    The truth may well be that he's simply to selfish or apathetic to make any real effort, and if that's the case, you can bet those characteristics will spread to other aspects of your relationship over time.

  • Dump him and find another. If he wanted to find it bad enough he would. Some men are like a child, the only put in time without thinking about the quality of their work. He does not care. Since it is not important to him, let him go. There are 1000's of guys who would love to give it a try.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm sorry but I can't help you much because I don't have a boyfriend. I've been trying to find one since the last two years. So he sucks at womens anatomy but at least he is trying so dont ever make him feel like he isn't good enough! But that apart, may be try showing him a YouTube video there's instructional videos on there.

    • I've never made him feel like that.. I'm not that sort of person I'm too worried he would be upset

  • Im so nieve, I have no idea, what is an outie pussy? I really don't want to look up images *blush*
    maybe just have a conversation with him about how you like it, make it really clear, tell him you arnt enjoying it. If that doesn't work and it doesn't get better, guess your stuck with a terrible lick job.

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  • "he's obviously just used to being with tiny pussies coz everything easier to find "

    this is your insecurity speaking, it isn't based on reality unless you've talked to those other girls he's been with. perhaps when he's going down on you, you can maneuver him to the right place or even put your finger right above where he should lick so he has a point of reference. or even help him by pulling back your vaginal lips for easier access.

  • Face sit.

    He can learn what you like that way... and you'll be able to control exactly what you want!

    • Agreed

    • What so i should just sit on his face? Lol I might suffocate him haha

    • Tie him spread eagle to the bed, if you want to start off right. He will quickly learn that the more he licks in the right places the more you'll move around and give him a chance to catch his breath!

  • He's a loser... no offence

  • get him a book called, "pussy for dummies"

    • Is that actually a book?

    • more like a manual

  • It takes 2 to tango, Girls give me shitty head all the time i don't write about it on the internet. Maybe you should stop hating on your man and appreciate the fact that he is trying to please you!

  • Take control and sit on his face, he won't suffocate and if he does, he'll die happy!

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