My boyfriend has a fantasy of me being with other men?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend likes to fantasy about me being sexual with other males and it turns him on to think of other men having touched me in the past. He loves hearing about my past sexual experiences with my exes and it really makes him very aroused to think of them pleasuring me. Its not that he wants me to cheat on him he just loves imagining me in those situations being pleasured and being wanted by another male. I was wondering if there are other males out there who have this same fetish?

[asdfdude]

I don't have this fantasy.

But a fantasy can't be "wrong", either.

Regardless, studies have found that this is one of the most common fantasies among guys, despite popular opinion. It's not rare that people act on it, too.

[advice2380]

I want my wife to sleep with another guy. I have no desire to be with another guy. I think people over think sex. If you dont want more to happen be up front. If you want to make it happen do it cause you want to

[Anonymous]

He clearly doesn't care about you if he wants to pimp you out.

[Cyber_Ghost]

Sounds like its time for a new boyfriend. One that actually cares would be a good start.

[TheBattMan]

I don't fit A or B, but it's somewhat common among sexual paraphilias

[NJRIII]

He might be gay

[NilsB]

He is not the only one but it's not common and i dont know a person personaly with this fetish

[blondfrog]

He learned that from pornhub. Cut off his porn viewing time and his fantasy of this will slowly diminish.

[asdfdude]

That's not true at all. Sexual attraction is instinctual, and our instincts were evolved over countless generations. Porn is only playing to desires we already have, it's not creating them. This particular fantasy exists because of "sperm competition", and exists in other species like chimps. When a male's female mate is around other males, he senses that there is a paternity threat to his reproductive success (which drives evolution), and when he sees another male mating with his partner, that threat is at red alert, and his best hope to pass on his genes is to remove the competing sperm from her as quick as possible, and replace it with a large amount of his own sperm to maximize the odds that his genes will reach the egg first. All of this happens through instinct. The instinctual response to seeing a competing male having sex with our mate is immediate, strong arousal, to lead us to sex with our partner. Thus, men are aroused seeing guys have sex with a girlfriend.

[TheDreamRunner]

Weird

[Anonymous]

Everyone has something different.

[Anonymous]

Is your self esteem that low that you think you can't do better than this insecure cuck?

[Anonymous]

Tell him to invite a strange guy over to your home an slam a dick down your throat. If he's really getting off about it then that should get him going.

[Anonymous]

My wife is submissive and was married to a demanding sadist before we met. I'd love to hear all of the things me made her do but she doesn't talk about it. She has told me some things, but nothing extreme or in depth.