My boyfriend has an Asian fetish... but I'm not Asian. Can you be in a relationship with someone and have a fetish for something completely different?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have always watched porn together, so I know he likes hentai porn. I also know when I'm not around he sometimes (not often) watches just Asian porn. This NEVER bothered me, cause porn is completely normal and we all have our fantasies. Until a couple months ago, I found out he had a short affair with a chinese coworker.

We have been working really hard at rebuilding our relationship but last night, I found out that he's still been watching Asian porn. All I can think about is him watching that porn and imagining the girl he was cheating with.

** Please note that I know how risky it is to stay in a relationship after cheating. We have pinpointed problems that lead to it and have completely changed in those aspects **

This question is strictly about my bfs fetish.

I should also mention I'm an attractive (I'm not trying to be conceited, just for background.. I'm not an ogre lol), half black/half white young woman.

Can you be in a relationship with someone and have a fetish for something completely different?

[0112358]

If you're not his type, you should break up.

I think you might consider the fact though that 'white guy has sex with half-black half-white girl' is a relatively limited porn category, and it could be that you AND Asian girls broadly fall into being 'his type'. I'm not sure what you look like, as mixed people can turn out all sorts of ways, but it's at least a possibility.

[Trolloween]

Really depends on how little he likes non-Asians. I mean I love pizza, could say I have a fetish for pizza, but I still love chocolate and other foods. That's totally different to someone with an eating disorder and can only imagine eating pizza. Or only eating other foods because I cannot get pizza.

[pinky_kitty]

happen sometimes and u still can figure out a way to make that work without living your partner.. u can maybe fo some Asian stuff like the food the dressing and something like that...

[ArrowheadSW]

I would have serious issues if I was dating a woman, and she was attracted to something totally different. I really don't think that I would stay in the relationship to be honest.

[worldscolide]

I love redheads.. My wife is not a redhead... What does that tell you.

[Anonymous]

He will leave you for an Asian woman if he can get one. It’s only a matter of time

[Asker]

He had the chance to and didn't. But thank you for your opinion.