My boyfriend keeps teasing me about my breasts?

We have fought over this issue so many times. He keeps telling the same thing even though i have said to him that i am insecure about them plus i dont think they are THAT small considering that i am somehow fit. He has gone so far that he has told me that 2 other girls have bigger breasts than me and when i get mad he says that he is just joking. Maybe if he doesn't like them i should stop letting he see them? I don't know
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I want to give your boyfriend the benefit of the doubt. He just does not quite grasp how it hurts you. Guys talk about women's breasts ( size, shape, etc.) all the time.

    I might suggest, next time it happens (he brings up the topic of your breast size -- not in a complimentary way) act very sad, teary-eyed and don't say anything for a while.

    When he asks what's wrong, you tell him that you had hoped the two of you could stay together... but it just isn't going to work because you can't change your breast size... and he can't be happy with them the way they are.

    Imply that his dissatisfaction is a deal-breaker. You can't stay with someone who doesn't accept you the way you are.

    When he protests that it's not like that, you ask him "Did I not tell you, many times? Did I not ask you not to joke about it... many times? Does it just go in one ear and out the other? Why would you do this? Were you not paying any attention at all to how it affects me?

    It's not a joke! It really, really bothers me! It is not funny!

    Maybe he will catch on.

    But DO NOT BE POLITE, GENTLE, OR INDIRECT.

    BE FORCEFUL ! !

  • maybe he gets a kick when he teases you about them. tease him back or show indifference/ no emotion when he teases you about it. nobody wants to kick a dead horse lul

Most Helpful Girls

  • He needs to cut that shit out. Have ONE more talk with him and say "If I hear this kind of comment out of your mouth, I'm leaving." Then stick by what you say. He really needs to get it in his head that this is not acceptable.

  • There are loads of guys that adore small books. I have one as a SO!

    Go find one for yourself. Your present guy sounds a little bit immature making (?) jokes about small boobs.

    • Books😂

    • @killer4212 Yup! Them too! LOL!

  • I recommend dating someone who doesn't put down your appearance! There are plenty of guys who like any size.

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  • Yep dump him. He's picking on you, and it's not funny.

  • Didn't anyone ever tell you? Flat is justice.

  • Do women really care what size their breasts are? I mean it isn't like a penis. Guys don't really care about the size of your breasts.

    • I think most guys are just happy that she has breasts, but some guys do care.

  • Sounds immature

  • He sounds like a real jerk. There's nothing wrong with your breasts. But it sounds like there's something wrong with your boyfriend.

  • You need to have a serious talk with him telling him that it's not only to tease you about it. If he can't stop then you should be looking for a better guy.

  • get rid of him, no one needs an immature jackass as a partner especially if you've already brought this up with him.

  • he is a dick. if he doesn't like them maybe he should leave.

  • I hate boys like that

  • Perhaps you need to tell him to accept you as you are or take a hike and find someone else. x

  • leave from him...

  • Why are you still with him?

    He sounds like an awfully insecure and immature guy, if he can't accept the way you are the he doesn't deserve you!

    My ex boyfriend was cruel to me when I put on weight on, just flaunt what you got without a care of his opinion :)

    • Really? That's so immature

    • @Daynada may I ask how this is immature?

    • It's just so stupid of him to do that. It's mean.

  • tell him to stop

  • He's a jerk. Make a mean comment about his penis size and I doubt he'll do that again.

  • i totally love your tits pink anon. much love.