My boyfriend masturbates to Emily Ratajkowski. I have zero boobs. Does it mean he’s not into me?

I’m real flat. I’m pretty and have a very nice and fit figure but boobs are not my forte. At all. I even have quite a bony chest.

Imagine the joy to discover my boyfriend jacks off mainly to Emily Ratajkowski... so I guess he does mind the fact I have no boobs after all if he feels the need to look at girls who do to masturbate?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It doesn't mean he minds you not having boobs, but men can be stimulated by women who don't look like their girlfriends.

    Like me, I have a little (albeit tight) butt, but my man often looks at porn with girls who have bigger asses (not like Kim K, but rounder, bigger). He still loves my ass and gropes it, but he also enjoys bigger booties too. No harm, no foul.

  • What you notice are her boobs, but maybe that's not what he likes (visually) about her. Could be her hair, eyes, facial expressions. A number of things really.

    • COME ON!

    • Serious as a heart attack.

    • She's right. Unless he's said it specifically, you don't know that it's her boobs he likes.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Won`t lie, Emily is HOT as fuck, but i`ve seen better than her.

    But back to the question... yeah if i have a girlfriend i wouldn`t masturbate to other women, lol

    Rather masturbate her nudes than to watch porn or whatever, but I don't know

    Every guy is different

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  • Imagine Now Knowing your Loser of a Boyfriend has NO... Respect for you either. I find this a Slap in your Face.
    There is Not much you can Do about it but Leave him. But he Must Not Mind any Time that you are Flat Chested, Your personality as Well, I can Tell, Highlights and Delights and I am Sure as the Shure on my own Chest, there are other Beautiful features you Possess that are Not on your Chest. xx

    • I will look up this Bitch now. xx

  • It's irrelevant. Guys like to imagine themselves having sex with different women, and as long as it purely remains a fantasy, it's harmless. It also doesn't mean that he doesn't find you attractive, so don't worry.

    • My boyfriend once complimented this girl who looked different than me. Guess what? We got into the WW3.

    • @desidoll : He just said something that guys always think but generally don't say, i. e., he should have just kept the thought to himself. I myself always assume that my girlfriend finds guys other than me attractive and simply have a "look but don't touch" philosophy rather than walking on eggshells. It should not be taken to mean that he isn't happy with you and/or doesn't find you beautiful.

    • I am aware of this fact about guys but for some reasons I just find it to be upsetting! He has his own issue too. He doesn't like it if I compliment Black guys attractive and the word BBC drives him crazy.

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  • No women tend to think guys hand pic the things they bash to wishing there girls look like that they don't

  • No, we like variety. And there's more to you than your boobs. I'm sure you've thought a guy was attractive before that didn't look at all like your boyfriend right? It's the same thing. We can (like you), and do, like different types of women.

    • The problem is you women take it too personally and compare yourselves to them, but that's not what we guys do.

  • You need to think realistically. Guys and girls get turned on by anything they find attractive, and just because your boyfriend finds Emil attractive doesn’t mean he isn’t into you. We like what we see and most of the time it’s the insecurities that are talking

  • Guy like verity.

  • No, enjoying one thing does not mean you can't enjoy something else.

    For example, if I love eating hot dogs, does that mean I'm dissatisfied when I eat a burger? Absolutely not.

  • I would confront him on this matter before jumping to conclusions. He wouldn’t be your boyfriend if he wasn’t attracted to you.

    • Um... no. There is nothing to "confront" him about.

    • @Anon-ymous1 clearly there is an issue if he is jerking off to other women

    • No, there isn't. The "issue" is nothing more than normal human behavior and desires.

  • He's moving a bit mad still

  • I had to google this Emily to see what she looked like. Meh, looks average to me. If your boyfriend jacks off to any other woman you have a problem.

  • No... it means he *is* into Emily Ratajkowski, because she's a fucking goddess. It doesn't mean he *isn't* into you.

  • but Emily Ratajkowski is a wonderful woman.

  • just live with the fact :p

  • He like jew woman :D

  • Zero 0⃣ boobs are beautiful

  • Look, if you don't want to date a guy who jacks off to Emily Ratajkowski, I've got some REALLY bad news for you. The vast, vast, VAST majority of straight guys will have jerked it to her at LEAST once. We've all seen the Blurred Lines video and we've all been horny as hell as a result. And I'll bet you every guy can name Emily from that video and 95%+ can't give you the name of any other girl in the video. Also, if you ask any guy if they've heard of Treats magazine, I'd guess that mostly they know it because they've searched for more of Emily R and found some insanely hot nude vids of her there.

    So basically, my point is getting upset because your boyfriend jacks off to Emily R, is like getting upset because he has a penis that gets hard. Don't sweat it. You're good.

  • so he's only allowed to find one type of person attractive? lol. get real. Almost NOBODY gets turned on by 1 thing and one thing only. I've masturbated to girls with giant tits and almost non existent tits and loved each one the same. :) Don't let your insecurities stress you out for no reason.

  • It's sick to know he has sex with other women mentally

    • So porn in general would be considered 'cheating' sort of thing in a relationship? :/

    • Yeah this is definitely the type of insecure chick who'd make porn a deal breaker lmao

    • We're visual and like to look, it doesn't mean we are "mentally having sex with them".

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