My boyfriend printed out a nude I sent him?

I don't know what to think. He lives in a Frat and he has his own room.. but still... he wanted to see a pic of me nude, like full body with face, boobs, vagina AND asshole... I sent it to him stupidly and then it turns out he printed it out and keeps it in a desk in his room.

I feel violated. What do I do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • There's not much u can do except learn from it ,, that's one thing I don't care who you are you have to trust the person 100 % if I'm chatting with someone and for some reason we start sending each other pictures I don't care what happens to us how good or bad,, I look at it like this it was between this person and I and no one else. , I feel this way because a girl and I made a video tape and 4 years later I see it on a porn site she sold it and then I see it on another and another that's messed up ,, hey just think it could be on his wall

  • What do you do?

    Learn two valuable life lesson about:
    1) sending nudes and teach this lesson to other naïve young ladies thinking of doing the same thing.
    2) Dating frat boys or having anything to do with the Greek system is both stupid and inviting misery be ause the people in it ate stupid and immature. The purpose of the Greek system is to keep kids immature for another 4 years.

    As for your boyfriend, visit him in his frst room and take it down. Then give him shit for doing that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Ask him to throw it away. But chances are he either won't or he might not be honest about wheter he did throw it away. I don't want to victim blame but If you send a nude you have be aware that the one you send it to will probably not be the only one who sees it

  • Next time be smart enough to not send nudes. Frankly I think people who send nudes are just asking for trouble. You may get along lovey dovey now but when you break up all bets are off.

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  • Learn from it and move on. Men who want nudes aren't typically respectful in their use of them. It wasn't just for eye-candy and it sure wasn't art.

    Learn, and find more mature/respectful men.

  • As long as he keeps it confidential, why does the medium matter? He can share it from his phone more easily.

  • Can't think why he'd ever need a printed copy, seems weird. What did you expect him to do with it?

  • Report it. You didn't consent to him printing it out. Glad you realised it was stupid

  • Tell him to take it down. Why? You do not want it up there. Simple as that. Your nudes were for him and him alone.

  • Tell him to take it down and keep it private or you will not have sex with him again. He will prefer sex as opposed to jerking off... it works every time.

  • So you're dating a frat boy and decided to send a full nude? My sweet poor girl.
    It's probably been 3d printed and turned into a public sex doll by now.
    Unless he's not a high ranking member and actually cares (pretty rare) just tell him you don't like what he's doing

  • Tell him that is NOT cool and ask him to destroy it

  • He is your boyfriend so you can talk to him right? Just tell him and if he’s a decent guy he will understand.

    • Tbh I send my boyfriend nudes with my face in them all the time. He keeps them on his phone but nothing more

  • I think it is a compliment. Just ask him to turn it flat when he has visitors.

  • Liar

  • He probably wants to show it to his mates lol

  • There's nothing to do, your over 18 and you know sending
    nudes to someone what it can do? You could send them
    to Males in exchange for money , what happens if they
    get in hands of minors? You and him could have Sexual
    predator charges being brought against you and jail time
    and or be registered as a sex offender for life?

  • I'd get it back and then send him almost nudes and let him beg for them

  • Ask him to please throw it away. Since he is a guy you have a lot of power to use to convince him to do so.

  • Beat him up? 😕

  • Hmm... your a fkn idiot for trusting him. He’s a fucking FRAT boy what did you think he was gunna do, respect your privacy? Dream on sista

  • Yikes... how can you ever trust him with anything again?

  • Eat it and take back your power.

  • Why would u feel violated when u Women want us to let u know how sexy U are to us then when we do its all bad.
    I mean come on we are men doing men thing's he could also be jacking off to the pic also he is a guy

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