My bf told me that he was too tired for a blowjob its that ok?

I was a little horny and we were in the car, i started touching him and i said i want to give u a blowjob and then he said well i am really tired and sleepy. I was a little happy (drinks) and that just turn me off. I mean for real dude, all the guys would love to received a blowjob and then he told me that. also i told him that he must be gay cause for real. TURN OFF now i am a little mad.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • its not right to be mad at him, give him a break. imagine being urged into sex when u really aren't feeling it. doesn't feel good. guys need breaks too. they get tired, sick, upset, like any of us. but if u mean this is a recurrent thing and u are worried something is up with him, then I don't know... u need to talk to him then. if this is just once in a while or happening during an exhausting period in his life, let him be and chill out!

  • So what, I know it hurts your feelings at the moment because you don't feel "wanted" , but maybe he was really tired. If it bothered you that much, the next time he wants to have sex just tell him you're too tired. I don't recommend tit for tat, but sometimes it does work lol

    • Hhahahhaha ok. Well i just felt like that not wanted. But know thanks to you guys opinion i get it people get tired. what can i do :P

  • It might be upsetting but just wait next time, no one likes to be rejected but if you wanted to do it for you then it's selfish. If you wanted to please him and make him feel good and he flat out turned you down I could see how it could upset you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Look if he was tired then he wasn't going to enjoy. It. Girls are often saying "not tonight" .
    You're being very unfair on him. You were both just in different mindsets at the time. It's unfair to hold it against him.

  • You are also a little selfish. Maybe he was really tired. Sometimes that happens. are you always in the mood for sex?

    • well yes hahah. Buti know that sometimes you are not into that, but is a blowjob, every guy will love to get one, i guess

    • yes they are nice, but sometimes you just are not in the mood for one. I mean i would not want one sitting in car.

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  • Maybe he is really tired 😫

  • Maybe he was scared it would interfere with his driving.

  • You don't realise that just like you, we can't be always in the mood.

  • I can’t imagine ever turning down a blowjob from my girlfriend.

  • wtf is wrong with him, how are u too tired to lay there and do nothing but get ur dick sucked... he could even fall asleep while u do it

  • Today he was tired... Next time ask him for that, he will give u a deep throat!!!

  • So what just give him one in the morning so he'll be well rested.