My bf wants a 3-some?

[Anonymous]

okay so for months now my bf has been asking for a 3-some... like we have done 3-somes before but this is time its his way meaning two girls and him... the problem im having is finding another girl my friends don't go that way so there's no way... so if you guys have had a 3-some how did you find the third person

[LoveandLive]

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3 somes are sinful.

[manuelmanny]

no its almost every guys dream. dont push you dumb ass religion on other people you are whats wrong in the world not everyone else.

[Asker]

dude nobody asked if they were a sin and im sorry but it is my choice and I thought this was a place to ask and get answer not get judged an be lectured

[manuelmanny]

I have no problem with what your opinion I have a problem that you are judging people.

[Michael-in-SC]

You chose to read this story and instead of just ignoring it, you jump in just to proselytize. What a douche move.

[Chronick]

@loveandlive you're such a fucking tool. Get out of here you loser.

[nickstaa]

take this religious bs out of threesomes god has no place in the bedroom.

[Thrifty]

You have had threesomes before meaning there were two guys and you before?

[Asker]

umm yes that is correct lol... finding a guy was easy its girls that are difficult to find that are okay with it

[Thrifty]

Who picked the other guy in your last threesome? You or your boyfriend?

[Asker]

he gave me options and I was to say yes or no to em so both I would say

[Thrifty]

Okay: There are multiple options. But I do not know whether or not you want to hear them because it involves paying for it.

[Asker]

thanks I would like to hear it and maybe it try it

[Thrifty]

First I will give you the option, then list the pros and cons. 1. Let him pick a girl that is sweating his dick. Guys who have girlfriends ALWAYS have some girl who is lurking. Pro-Free, everyone gets what they want Con-Your boyfriend might end up cheating on you in the future and leave you for her 2. Hire an escort. Pro-No commitment and as long as you pay them, the relationship ends there Con-Gross, costly, and spiritually death 3. Strip club and just ask some girl there Pro-You have to go to a strip club Con-You have to go to a strip club

[Asker]

he has girls I know but he isn't sleeping with any of them I know for sure... the reason I have to pick is for me to be comfortable with the other person but those options are pretty good

[Thrifty]

In your last threesome, did the other guy penetrate you with his penis?

[Asker]

do you mean if I had sex with the guy... yes him and my bf

[Thrifty]

Okay. To each their own, but I would not interested in letting my girlfriend getting railed out by another guy even if she allowed me to have threesomes with her and another girl.

[Asker]

I guess it depends on the guy bc an ex wanted the same thing I just never did it with him

[Thrifty]

You ex wanted to have a threesome with you and another guy? Maybe you just bring threesomes out of people.

[Asker]

haha I don't know maybe I guess yea ex wanted but never happened I said no every time

[Thrifty]

I need some convincing even to for a threesome with two girls because what if she ended up turning lesbian like Ross's wife in the TV show friends? And I would rather not have threesomes at all than allow another guy to fuck my girlfriend. But thats me.

[Thrifty]

Galatians 5:16-24 - So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. 17For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whateverc you want. 18But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law. 19The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. 22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.

[Thrifty]

Thank you for the Most Helpful Opinion!

[jackyct]

there is no such thing as boyfriend when you guys still fuck around. boyfriend/girlfriend is someone you're exclusive with, means no other people should be involved. i think you guys ars rather fuck buddys. this also counts for all the other open relationship couples. to me its like you people stick to one another as long as the better pussy is around.

but thats none of my business. id recommend you to hire a professional. no stress afterwards

[GlamPod]

@jackyct My point exactly but she would rather live in denial. Some people don't understand the depth of life is all.

[jackyct]

Many girls these days feel the pressure to be sluts to get guys. In hope to please the men so that they stick with them. Its nothing else. No men who truly loves would want to watch his girl getting off with another. None. Its just about sex in open relationships. Always having one in backup. These guys just use girls to fullfie their fantasys. But sadly those girls are blinded and stupid as fuck to be used like puppets

[jackyct]

@GlamPod

[GlamPod]

I mean no one ever said she was smart to begin with. Look at her spelling and her story reeks of insecurity. I die of embarrassment for her every time I read it. Give me a shotgun and I'll kill it myself... I'll probably rub some the wrong way but it's true @jackyct

[Anonymous]

So is this relationship just for sexual purposes? I can't imagine how he agreed on having a threesome with another guy if he really likes you not just in a sexual way. Or was it his idea and you just agreed to do it. Was it something you would do if he didn't suggest it? Well if you really want to do it you can always hire a prostitute. He would probably enjoy it more. Just saying.

[Asker]

it isn't just for sexual purposes he not only likes me he does love me just saying and if he wanted a prostitute he would have already gotten one

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he won't maybe he would. Since its not above him to do threesomes with a girl he apparently loves. I don't believe you quite understand what commitment is.

[Asker]

yea I don know what commitment is and that's not the problem or the question here

[Opinion Owner]

I already told you the answer is get a prostitute. But maybe he won't get one like you said. What's the use when you can do whatever he likes for free. Have fun on your threesomes with your fuck buddy and by the way relationship which involves love needs commitment if there's none i dont think thats love at all. But you probably don't know what love is too.

[Asker]

I had my share of relationships with and without sex to know what love is so you should just assume shit

[Opinion Owner]

It's so sad how many girls have so little self respect nowadays. It make some guys think they can act like perves and use girls as a sex toys or something.

[GlamPod]

That is not your boyfriend, he is your fuck buddy. He is only using you for a thrill, it will never work out.

[Asker]

im sorry but you don't know him and if I was just his fuck buddy he would have told me I know where I stand with him

[GlamPod]

My opinion, so get over it.

[PineappleBreath]

None of my business but I think the people in the relationship know what it is that is called a fact an opinion is like I think your retarded something I believe but can't prove

[GlamPod]

I'm sorry, but @PineappleBreath retarded people don't get high ACT Scores or grades for that matter. Oh and before you go calling someone else "retard" instead of retarded get your grammar corrected and your sentence thought out. Plus, I believe your sentence/ paragraph deserves a couple of commas and just punctuation period. Also, it is my belief that maybe you are a little remedial yourself.

[forgottenmonkey]

bar go to a bar

[vet31bSoldier]

I guess I got lucky... my friends were really open to new things... so it worked out.

[Michael-in-SC]

Since there is an element of trust there already, why not ask one of your male threesome mates to recommend someone.

[Asker]

huh good point never thought of that

[lkjhg69cum]

That is so hot. He is a lucky man. Ok. Bar/night club, swingers clubs, and Craigslist. They will work. Always do.

[AidenBlue]

This is not going to end well.

[nomorewars]

Warning: Threesomes never work out, hun. In the end it'll ruin ur relationship. Heaven forbid u react a certain way with another man, moan differently, etc. Maybe ur man will react differently with another woman. It'll eventually bite u in the ass, so the two of u need to decide something: Do u want to break up? If not, then stop. Believe me: I've had my fair share. With that said... I have always found a willing third wheel with coworkers. If u go that route, then establish rules, specifally no goofing around at work.

[Asker]

like I said before we have had threesomes and it hasn't changed what we have it is just for the experience but I do know what you mean i'll keep that in mind

[brandonb123456]

Look on 3 some apps

[Anonymous]

So in the past your 3-ways have been you, your guy, and another guy? How did that work? Where'd you get the guy from?

[Opinion Owner]

Just ready your exchange above. I think the strip club idea is a good one!

[Anonymous]

Craigslist

[Anonymous]

damn wish i could find a girl like you <3 :D

[Asker]

gee thanks

[Anonymous]

ew gross
3 somes are nasty

[Asker]

for you but some don't mind it its all about the experience