My bisexual boyfriend wants me to have a threesome with him and another guy?

[Anonymous]

I’ve known my boyfriend is bi for a while and never thought too much into it. Recently he’s expressed that he really wants to have a threesome with another guy and me. He said I can mess around with the other guy if I want but mainly he wants to suck the other guy and get fucked. I finger him and have used toys on him but he told me he’s been craving and feels like he needs an actual cock which I can’t give him. What should I do? Does anyone have any experience with this? I suppose it could be kind of hot but I dunno.

[truthbeknown]

Ok, for the record, threesomes don't always mean disaster for your relationship. Many couples do experiment with them and have very successful relationships. It can increase the trust and bond between you by expanding those horizons to include new elements to your relationship. Threesomes are only successful if all parties want to participate. Most failures happen because one partner only does it to make the other happy and end up getting hurt somehow. Yes, threesomes can be sexually hot and very enjoyable and totally erotic if you are into sharing, and seeing or participating in same sex acts. If you are the jealous type and not really open to sharing, then they aren't for you. For someone bi, yes, they will always have an interest in same sex activities. The real issue is, you need to find out if he has same sex interest only, or if he has any romantic interest in this other guy. I fully believe people can have only a sexual or physical interest in someone, and have no desire what so ever to date them and with a romantic relationship. This would make a threesome more possible. But you need to talk to him about it and ask him if this is just sex, or if he might have any romantic interests.

[markscott]

What would you be doing as he gets the attention from the guy. It seems that he's more interested in the guy than in you. This doesn't look like a good long term relationship.

[Asker]

Well I’m assuming in any threesome situation anyone would be more interested in the person they haven’t already had sex with 100 times. I’m not sure what I’d want to do yet. He said I could just sit there and touch myself if I wanted.

[Stellastarling]

Honestly, it's fun to try out new things.😉 As long as you're comfortable with it I suggest why not? It sounds good. Although if it's his idea and you want to do it then tell him that you can do whatever you like to the guy too. Also remember the guy needs to be a stranger. I hope you know that. otherwise it could be super awkward. in fact it will be super awkward. Most likely the next day after. No one cares when they're getting laid, it's always the day after. Also, if you're not interested maybe tell him that he could try porn or if you really trust him then let him go to a male strip club. That ought to do the job.

[Asker]

Well if this is something he has to do to be satisfied I’d rather have him do it in front of me than behind my back. I’m not sure what I’d really want to do with the other guy.

[Stellastarling]

Well, there are two ways in this. Either you step out of this and let him watch porn or go to a male strip club or you make him jealous. Pay attention to the other guy. Make him feel a little threatened. Trust me, once he sees that he probably wouldn't want to do it again.

[Asker]

You sound as if you have experience with this lol

[Stellastarling]

Lol😂 thanks.

[Asker]

I don’t know. I’m bi too and think it would be fun to have a threesome but it’s not something I would need to be sexually satisfied. Just he talks about how since we’ve been together how he hasn’t been with a guy in over eight months and how bad he is craving cock. When I asked him what’s so great about it he talked about feeling cock throbbing in his mouth or inside him hearing the guy moan as he does him harder before having an orgasm. I asked him what he’d want me to do and he said he’d want me to kiss him and play with his balls and nipples while he’s getting fucked and help him suck the other guy off etc.

[Stellastarling]

Damn girl, I don't think that this guy is bisexual. He's probably bi curious for all you know. He could be looking to expirement with women especially if he's had more men in his life then women. He could be in the closet for all you know.

[samhradh_leannan]

It sounds like he just wants an excuse to have sex with a guy, without it being cheating. It doesn’t sound like it would really be a “threesome” if all he’s really excited about it rttingto have sex with a guy. If this is something you are genuinely okay with and think you will enjoy, then go for it. Otherwise, don’t do it. If this is something he really wants, then you two may simply not be a good match.

[Asker]

I don’t know. I’m bi too and think it would be fun to have a threesome but it’s not something I would need to be sexually satisfied. Just he talks about how since we’ve been together how he hasn’t been with a guy in over eight months and how bad he is craving cock. When I asked him what’s so great about it he talked about feeling cock throbbing in his mouth or inside him hearing the guy moan as he does him harder before having an orgasm. I asked him what he’d want me to do and he said he’d want me to kiss him and play with his balls and nipples while he’s getting fucked and help him suck the other guy off etc.

[samhradh_leannan]

It doesn’t sound like he is willing to go without sex with guys, in the long term. You will have to decide what that means for your relationship.

[Anonymous]

It really doesn't sound like he has thought much about your pleasure in this threesome to be honest. I don't see any reason you need to be there.

Unless you genuinely desire to help two men get each other off, where one of them is already not placing any priority on your pleasure, then go for it.

[grlpwr]

Go for it!!!

[Asker]

Thanks. Nice picture by the way. So do you have any experience with this?

[grlpwr]

Yes I have had 3somes with my boyfriend and another guy. My boyfriend sucked him while I watched and played with him. Supper hot.

[Asker]

Did they fuck? Where did they cum? Did you get to join in at all?

[grlpwr]

No our 3rd was really huge and it would have hurt my boyfriend so they didn't fuck but I am getting him ready for the next time... Sure I joined in, he fucked me while I 69'd with my boy and then after that my boyfriend gave him head while I played with his nips and butt.

[Asker]

That’s so hot. How are you getting him ready?

[grlpwr]

More pegging with a larger strapon getting him relaxed

[Asker]

I don’t know. I’m bi too and think it would be fun to have a threesome but it’s not something I would need to be sexually satisfied. Just he talks about how since we’ve been together how he hasn’t been with a guy in over eight months and how bad he is craving cock. When I asked him what’s so great about it he talked about feeling cock throbbing in his mouth or inside him hearing the guy moan as he does him harder before having an orgasm. I asked him what he’d want me to do and he said he’d want me to kiss him and play with his balls and nipples while he’s getting fucked and help him suck the other guy off etc.

[mariospapadopoulos12]

U still do that?

[OlderAndWiser]

Is this just casual fucking or do you think you may have a future with this guy? Because if you do. . . how will you feel when you are married and he still wants a boyfriend on the side?

[Paige90]

If you like the other guy you should do it! You might have a great time!

[Asker]

Do you have any experience with this hun?

[Asker]

I don’t know. I’m bi too and think it would be fun to have a threesome but it’s not something I would need to be sexually satisfied. Just he talks about how since we’ve been together how he hasn’t been with a guy in over eight months and how bad he is craving cock. When I asked him what’s so great about it he talked about feeling cock throbbing in his mouth or inside him hearing the guy moan as he does him harder before having an orgasm. I asked him what he’d want me to do and he said he’d want me to kiss him and play with his balls and nipples while he’s getting fucked and help him suck the other guy off etc.

[Paige90]

Yes hun

[mariospapadopoulos12]

Whay did u did paigee?

[braingirl]

Monkey Pox/HIV/AIDS... dudes don't like using protection with each other. Also, my feelings are that the relationship would change once you see actual male on male sex... bj's, anal.

[Miristheiss]

You need a new boyfriend. Why would you enjoy that? Some other guy doing you... watching your man do some other guy? Why on Earth is that good?

[Kitty_Rouge]

Just do it, it might be fun

[lovelyhoneybones]

Reasons why I don't date bi guys.

[Asker]

Well I am bisexual myself so I would be a hypocrite if I didn’t date someone else who also is bisexual. I just don’t feel the extreme craving and need for another girl that he does for guys.

[Chaz269]

If you're into it, do it! Do your research though, and carefully select the 3rd together. It's very important you choose someone neither of you know, and will only likely see again if you decide on a repeat performance. This reduces the chance and severity of jealousy attachment. Check out some swinger sites, DO NOT use CL. Finally, if you are even just a little unsure, don't do it. Your seemingly small reservations now could become major resentments after. Talk it over thoroughly, maybe even chat up some couples who've done it for pros, cons and experienced tips.

[Mrstory11]

If you feel comfortable go for it. But if you have to think on it. Just let your boyfriend do it without you an then only do him

[bubbakong2006]

Well you might actually enjoy that even just watching him get fucked have him eat your pussy while he takes it in the ass probably turn you on and cum and he surely will get off like that

[RicanEyes]

@Coolbreeze2 help answer this honey

[coolbreeze2]

well this is a tough one, I think you seriously need to question and be satisfied you can actually cope with him doing this. Its good that he is open about it and that in itself is a strong relationship but this moves it onto a whole new level

[sagark123]

Leave him. If you don't want to have it then leave and just tell him to himself a boyfriend. Or you can that you patch up but you won't have threesome.

[Asker]

So you are saying I shouldn’t do it?

[sagark123]

If you don't want it then don't do it. You are showing your body to someone who is not your boyfriend plus your boyfriend wants him not you. So I don't think you should do it

[Asker]

I don’t mind I mean I’m bi too although I haven’t approached him about a threesome. I think he’s more interested in a guy just because he already had a girl.

[sagark123]

If you want it then go for it

[sagark123]

PM me and let's talk about it

[ravedave]

If you're into the idea, I don't see what reason there is not to try it. Of course you'd need to be sure you're comfortable putting yourself in that situation, but I don't really see the problem.

[JangleKlown]

After reading what you posted and the replies, why not say "ok. But only if we have a fmf 3some first.

[taleswapper]

Two guys at once. four hands. Two mouths. Two cocks. Double the fun. Plus, you can share a cock with your boyfriend. What's not to like?

Do ask to meet the guy, first. You have to like him enough to have sex with, too, or tell your boyfriend that you'll watch, but not participate.

I've been both the partner and the "other guy". A good time was had by all, and I got invited back when I was the odd one out. Just be safe, have fun, and try to be a gracious hostess. Spell out any limits in advance, and have a safeword that will bring everything to a sudden halt. It's a lot more complicated with three.

[Shaft50]

Sounds like you're already entertaining this option. Go for it if you are also interested in this experienced. Maybe try something different down the track, something that you initiate or suggest and appeals to you more. He may be willing to come to the party on that as well

[Kat_puppies]

huh sorry my train of thought was bad

[NearLunatic]

I think its a bad idea to bring another guy into your bedroom. It will surely create more problems and will make your life more complicated. Imagine raising your kids in that kind of atmosphere. Look for some decent person love!

[Samsissy]

Message me so we can chat about this!

[Asker]

You have to follow me.

[Samsissy]

You asked This anonymous

[rajcuckold]

Massage me, we can talk about this topic.

[sidvt]

It's definitely a bad idea