Guys have loads of different fetishes. I'm a bit older than many people on this site, and I've been asked to do lots of things over time. A lot of it involves outfits, short skirts, stockings, high heels or whatever. If it's in private and it's not hurting anyone, I go along with it. Guys are very stimulated by what they see, so you dressing up for him is only part of that. Some requests can seem strange, and you think "Why does he like that?" A fetish can be a very complex thing, but if you go along with it, you'll probably find that it really ramps up the sex because he will be very turned on. You can also use it as a teaser. "If you take me to X-Y-Z, I'll dress up for you later". He'll take you, definitely! You have to honour your side of the deal, though. My advice is just go with the flow.
This was more than helpful I’m definitely leaning to do it now for conditions;) hahaha he already does everything I want and takes me out all the time I’m the one that says let’s stay in I’m more introvert then him but I’ll think of something I wanna do and I’ll say I have a surprise and do it or just tell him I’m gonna definitely thinking about doing it but might take me a few months lol
I was molested so many times before I realized it was something normal.
That kink is OK, but as some else said I think he wants a 12-14 old. What if you get pregnant 🤰 🤔 what going to happen to ur daughter?
One of my moms boyfriend groomed me, but I started it with the others. Trust me I can still remember 💯 when meeting each one for the first time and i knew every time which ones were going to molest me.
Sad thing when some guys hit on me it triggers those old feelings and it turns me on. Crazy but it does.
Costumes and role play can add a whe new dimension to your sexual fun. It's something he enjoys. It is not to make you feel inadequate or uncomfortable.
The best thing to do is tell him how you feel. Ask him what it is about the dress up that excites him. Maybe there is a different scenario and costume you would feel better dressing up as and you can let him know. Most guys have a few that are turn on for them. This was just one of them. If you want some ideas, ask and I will share some with you.
Thank you really helpful I will ask him why. Yes I am open to ideas of other things please …I was just like worried am I not good enough lol I really hope there is other stuff he likes
The school girl scenario is very common for a lot of guys. Other options are nurse/patient, doctor/nurse, flight attendant/passenger or pilot, hooker/client, stripper/customer, female teacher/male student, fireman/rescued damsel, cop/suspect (roles could be played by either sex), businessman or woman/intern, photographer/subject, burgler/woman at home alone, prince/haram girl, professor/student wanting a better grade, The possibilities are endless. If you can think of an occupation and anybody that interacts with them, then you have a possibility. They can be as mild or outrageous as you desire. Think about what might turn you on and go have some fun. Let me know how it goes and if I can be of any further assistance.
You only do things you want to do and are comfortable with.
he should know what your limits and boundaries are.
you both discuss them and agree to them
Trust, Respect, Communication and Honesty
all shoved with Informed Consent.
Have the discussion and boundaries, Limits, what you are and are not comfortable with, he then agrees or you dump him.
personally it sounds sus.
You set the boundaries and limits, not him.
Thanks for MHG
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It’s probably his fetish. Tell him that you aren’t comfortable doing that.
I did he was totally fine with but I still felt weird about it and then I brought it up again and he kinda got mad or defensive I wasn’t judging him either
That’s a bit of a red flag.
Don't do anything you're not comfortable with and if he doesn't respect your boundaries then he isn't the guy for you.
Do not do anything you are not comfortable with, if you are uncomfortable with doing that, talk to him about it. He may not know that you are. If he cares about you, he will not want you to do something that would make you uncomfortable.
Looks like he is emphasizing your age gap.
Absolutely dress up like a little schoolgirl and definitely do not wear panties ! Let him take you in public lift that skirt up and slip his dick inside you in public ! That’s a hot fantasy
Everyone has fantasies. Don’t judge him for his. Or maybe your uneasiness is a sign that you aren’t compatible for the long run. My advice? Just go with it. It doesn’t cost you anything and it might be fun.
So he's into roleplaying and clearly you're not. Explain to him you're not into this kink and feel disrespected.
Honestly, I dont think it's a big deal, it's actually quite fun and worth exploring. Next time tell him to dress like a fireman, policeman, pilot etc.
Sounds to me like he came out with his fetishes a little to early in the relationship.
I definitely agree expcally not leaning into it like start off w lingerie at least. And he’s always been very basic and vanilla but like we’ve done it in a public bathroom (my idea) and we have sex a lot but I j caught me very off guard
Well I guess he thought that since he supported your fetish that you would support his, I don't know what to tell you tho since he did help you with yours 🤷🏽
Wow very true never thought of it like that
Don’t do it if it feels creepy
Set boundaries.
I did but I don’t want him too be unhappy sexually even tho it seems great so I was just worried if it goes deeper than a school girl fetish like I got molested when I was v younge and I don’t want him to b a perf or anything yk?
His happiness should never be a reason for you to lose your boundaries.
Very well said I don't know why I think like that lol
I'm uneasy about all the guys with pink anon accounts.
It is a fantasy or kink for him. Only do wit you are comfortable with
That is a bit weird, but if you aren't into it then just tell him that.
What's wrong with that? It's a common fantasy, you know.
He needs to know how you feel, so don't hold back or do anything you aren't comfy with.
It's the same idea as lingerie
I wouldn't worry about it just say you don't want to and how you feel about it and if a good guy he will understand it. He probably just thought maybe throwing in some roleplay sex would be fun and thought you like it too. Maybe suggest something else like being a nurse or him a fireman something you might be comfortable with.
Maybe he just thinks you're a sweet cutie.
It is a thing some guys developed when that were still adolescents.
Exactly. Because girls are hot. And that's what they used to wear back then. It's the original male fantasy. It's the first thing we're attracted to after going through puberty.
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