Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend 30 asked me girl 19 to dress up like a school girl and we’ve only been dating 3mths.. I just feel super uneasy about it all thoughts?
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Sex is amazing and we don’t even need it and we haven’t been dating very long so I j don’t know why he wouldn’t bring it up later? I don't know it just made me sad maybe I’m j insecure. Just super confused.
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11 36It is a thing some guys developed when that were still adolescents.
Exactly. Because girls are hot. And that's what they used to wear back then. It's the original male fantasy. It's the first thing we're attracted to after going through puberty.
It's a fetish, schoolgirl fetish
Why uneasy sad and confused? Would it be more normal if he wanted to see you in baggy pants covered in mud? Typically all men like to see a girl they are with dressed cute beautiful sexy... there's a whole industry around it, shopping.
Have you told him how you feel?
Yes but he got very defensive sort of mad and saying things I never even said so I was j like ugh what does this mean or am I reading too deep into things
No... if you really don't like it, this is a red flag.
"Don't need it". I found that sentiment rather odd. Everyone has their fantasies. For guys, it might be hot to see their girl dressed up cute because they don't see that particular style normally. It is well known that men tend to be attracted to various female uniforms like schoolgirl, flight attendant, nurse, etc. It might just be an aesthetic thing. Don't take it personally.
Maybe u should have mentioned sex in the question Bc there was no context, troll
also why u dating a 30 y/o at 19
You're already been having sex with him. Why is it weird?
The only thing you can do at this point is tell him how you're feeling about it and talk it out. I know it feels good to talk about it on here since it's not confronting him but that's what you need to do. Why do you really not want to do it? That's what you'll need to ask yourself
Do it
Sounds like a good time. Go for it.
He want younger partner with tight pussy, new taste , new love
But I’m already younge and he’s 30 dosnt make sense is this like pedophillia? You mean? You got me freaked out now.
You have me confused sort of you think that is the case? Even when the sex is v good? I have another question why does he never last that long? To get It over with?
Lasting long is a porn thing in my opinion. It depends on the guy tho.
Why donot you quit, if you do not like him?
Exactly… it’s a troll “But I’m already younge” yeah no duh she’s 19 dating a 30
That is kinda odd procede caustuously
Why would it make you feel a bit insecure he just shows that he is really close and comfortable with you.
90% men never got sex when they wanted it the most and they probably don't want to cheat later because they missed out. Or like me he can just find schoolgirl outfit sexy. I wore my high school soccer jersey for a woman and I still felt comfortable
I wouldn't like it. I know it's a kink for some and others probably just see it as a costume but for me, I feel it sexualizes someone who is in high school or younger. The slutty teacher costume is damn near the same thing so that goes to show some like it when you play younger and that's what rubs me the wrong way.
I'm not sure what your boyfriends thought process is behind the costume idea so I don't want to accuse him of anything. But, I think he brought up the costume idea later, because he became more comfortable to bring it up later than in the beginning.
Maybe talk to him about it or suggest another costume you're more comfortable with doing. Whatever you decide to do just make sure for you that you're comfortable with it.
Probably a fantasy he has since you’re young, role play is fun
Apparently the sex is only " amazing" to you. Lol
oh so you're dating a closeted pedophile congratulations
No big deal just a fantasy he has. Most guys have a fantasy related to school whether it be a girl in a school uniform, female teacher, cheerleader, band girl, gymnast, gym and so on and it's related to when they were a teen themselves with hormones raging
This bothers you due to his age. At the back of your mind his age is bothering you. You are wondering if he is a pervert. This 'relationship' which is mostly based on lust and sex will not last. This society demonizes all men on a daily basis for the anything, and you've grown up in it. This will not end well. You do not trust him.