My boyfriend admitted he gave a naked massage to a girl. He said she is a lesbian and his dick was not involved or inserted. Should I be mad?

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My boyfriend admitted he gave a naked massage to a girl. He said she is a lesbian and his dick was not involved or inserted. Should I be mad?

GravitysMom · Accepted Answer

Ok was he also naked? If she was the only one naked and he's got a healing vibe then its possibly got a kernal of innocence.. but come on. Here is maybe a more important fact than her sexual orientation : "Is he attracted to her" That, you may find difficult to ask; ASK IT. Confront him. Next question do you have any kind of agreement that is a few shades closer to "open/poly" than monogamous? No? Diddnt think so. Bye🙋‍♀️ just like that. If you want to value your self respect above the selfish desires of others.. Because I would say that there's a bit of disrespect up in your face. Dont accept being dissed!

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

If he did that while going out with you I would say that was not a good idea.
I'm thinking if it was a guy laying there naked he would not have been rubbing him.
If he is a massage therapist then ok.
Was he naked too, or was just the female naked.

Flower7 · Accepted Answer

Yes you should be mad. Guys are always using the excuse that their female friends are lesbians. I’ve personally been told that several times before begin various guys that I was dating. It’s still just as bad! Even if she’s not attracted to him, that doesn’t lessen the attraction that could be coming from his end.

KarinMcDonald · Accepted Answer

I think that I'd be a little Leary of that story. Was he naked as well, or was it just the woman that he was rubbing the legs, back, thighs, bum, , , ,

AwesomeCookie · Answer

Yes.

Crazycookie23 · Answer

Is he a massage therapist or something? If so, then no cause ya chose someone in that field, but if not and he's just randomly going around giving free nude massages all over people's lady parts then yes... yes be very mad

lrina · Answer

yes yes, you should be quite mad about that.

boggboss · Answer

Lol would be enough for me to class it as cheating but thats upto u

DanaeAdam5 · Answer

Ignoring the fact that this is most likely a troll question you should dumb him because what the fuck kind of situation is that.

AvaOneLasTime · Answer

If that's what actually happened, no? Is that what he works or is a side-activity to make some money? Because if it is, how can you be mad at someone, for its job...

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

Yea, your reaction is unhealthy, I can say the same for your relationship, the fact that you aren't sure weither to be mad or not says it all.

mstbooblover · Answer

What's the problem if he admitted? It happened anyway, and he's been honest, even if his dick was involved. None of us, guy of girl, are made of dead substance. We all have feelings. Maybe that true love also consists of allowing some freedom to a partner.

PhoenixAl · Answer

Why is he even there first of all.. How did he get there second of all.. she could have gotten someone else to do it why your boyfriend.. I don't know I wouldn't tolerate that.

dreamstar72 · Answer

Trust maybe not since it would be kind of unbelievable if she was really a lesbian she would be requesting girl to give her a message. Also why did he tell you about his dick.