My boyfriend called me a whore then he left me after I refused sending him nudes I'm hurt, what should I do?

[Izmiralda]

[Rosexøxø]

Look at your sentence: you refused to send nudes.

Logically, whores send nudes to many guys and make themselves obtainable by many guys.

*You're not a whore.*

Your boyfriend is clearly one of two things: a liar, or a confused little boy.

Should you- a decent woman- or anyone else be hurt over someone like that?

No.

What do you do? Same as before you met the guy: enjoy single life with friends, hobbies, occupation, and family. If you want to try dating someone you know or I don't know speed dating, then go for it, but you should let yourself heal first. He provided for sexual and emotional needs. Your emotional needs can be taken care of by your own positive thinking, and the people who care about you. Save the sexual stuff for when you happen to meet a nicer guy and wish to build a life with him, or if you're more ambitious- do the speed dating stuff.

You have very simple and clear options. Don't freak out.

[brokengirl21]

look, it just sounds like he was is using you but i understand the last girl i dated used me for nude pics. So, i just packed up my stuff and left her saying i ant gonna date you id ya just gonna use me. And what you can do is if you listen to music listen to your fave tracks!

[Fireguy17]

Find a new boyfriend.
Yes I know he loves you and he always treats you well, hopefully he does, but you didn't deserve that.
By definition isn't a whore someone that would be sending him nude pictures, so in reality you are not a whore.
Please do not let yourself be pressured into doing something you are not comfortable with.
Remember, once those pictures are out there, they can end up anywhere, and you have no control over if/where he posts them, who he shows them to, if he might try to blackmail you with them, do this or I will put the pictures online etc.
You just don't know what he can/would do.
You don't deserve to be treated like that, no one does.

Time to move on.

[ohsheeT]

Well he just proved to you who he was didn't he he's a spoiled little brat do not give in to him whatever you do if you give in to him he will think he can control you forever and ever I would walk away from the guy because he just told you exactly who he is don't ever let a guy treat you like that walk away you know you're 10 times worth more than that no matter how much you apologizes no matter what he says to you he just proved a point he just proved who he was I don't know about you but I wouldn't want that in my life

[MrOracle]

What should you do? You should be thankful to be rid of him. He's an asshole. You don't need that in your life.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Be glad that a man who was using you as a free prostitute is gone now.

[Guy13]

See ya 👋 is what I woukd be saying

[Jacobbbb]

Find the courage to move on. He sounds like a dick if he gets mad over nudes not being sent and says he's gonna go. Just let him

[Izmiralda]

I'll try

[katiesmuff]

Jump up and down, click your heals together and say thank you for this useless clown getting out of your life.

[DubiousIntentions]

Dump his lame butt. But I think you already know that.

[whirled_up_girl]

If it were me I'd be glad to be rid of somebody who was going to treat me badly. I say be glad that he's out of your life.

[Adititte]

In my opinion you should break up with him. If he thinks you are a whore because you didn't send him nudes he doesn't love you he just loves your body

[Izmiralda]

He broke up with me already

[Sour-rose]

Let that n*gga walk. Little bish.

[spartan55]

Block cut all contact.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

That's just immature.

Dry your tears.

He's not worth your time.

[Berethor]

He could had called you frigid, calling you whore don't makes sense.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Tell him to go fuck himself & find yourself a real partner. This douche isn't worth the time or energy of he's going to be an asshole.

[SamIam96]

Call a good friend, pour a couple glasses of wine and toast the end of a bad chapter in your life. He's an ass that was using you.

[mrmonogamous]

Dump his ass and make sure everyone you know knows what he did. He’s an asshole and needs to be run out of town. Tell any of his friends that you know that he’s trying to make up for his small penis and inadequate performance by trying to act like a playa with your photos. What a loser!

[slatyb]

Be happy you aren't pregnant and move on. You haven't lost anything of any value.

[20yearsolder]

Find a new boyfriend or you could send me nudes

[DJB72]

Tell him to fuck himself. If he's talking like that it's beginning to be abusive. All he sees is an object, not a person.

You're worth more than that.

Believe me, there's guys out there who'll crawl over broken glass and walk naked through stinging nettles to be with you.

You may want to avoid the ones who'll *literally* do either of those, but you get the idea.

[AviatorTom]

Ignore him, he's an idiot.

[Bricealan]

Kiss him off, you don't' need that.