The longer I go without intimacy the more aroused and the more intense and sensitive my dick becomes.
Anticipation by itself when I haven't been intimate for awhile would create a very vulnerable situation.
He needs to go very slow and needs to pull out way before he gets close to releasing. Oddly, the more he can pull out and rest his dick on your clit while you gently squirm or if he wiggles his tongue on your clit the stronger he can hold off releasing. This creates greater intensity and satisfaction for both of you.
If is penetrating you and you are moving you hips aggressively or you are wiggling your pelvic area too fast it creates intense pleasure that can almost turn his mind into mush he won't be thinking about withdrawing before its too late.
So you may need to simply move your hip and pelvic area a little more gently which also creates a greater controlled pleasure for you. Although it will make you climb the walls but also bring greater climaxes for you.
You may have to help keep it slow. Even in the middle of intimacy to ask him to use his tongue on your clit.
You have to remember that your pussy already gives your bf extreme pleasure and going without for awhile you and he need to realize that going slow for 45 minutes will create more pleasure for the both of you than running the 5 minute mile.
Simply, sexual tension builds up when you have an interruption from having sex regularly (especially if you aren't masturbating to compensate), which means, for guys, they tend to cum more quickly, because they escalate through the levels of arousal much more quickly.
This can happen with girls too. On a few occasions, I've had girls cum right as I enter them, especially if it had been a few days since we'd since been together. That sexual tension and desire builds up and is dying for release, and that release comes quickly.
Thats totally normal. When me and my boyfriend haven't had sex for a while, he comes really quick. It means he has very much enjoyed it! and missed it! Thats how penises work.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If he's only having sex as often as you two are together and you were apart for some time, that's going to mean that he's not as disciplined down there as when he's been at it on the regular. Sex gets more intense when you don't do it for a while.
Yes it's true. It is easier and faster to cum after having no sex or masturbation for a long time..
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