Firstly, I think he needs to check with his doctor why the anti-depressants are affecting his ability to cum... and check if it is medically ok for him to take viagra
I sometimes use viagra - especially if my girlfriend & I want to be able to have a really lovely prolonged session of foreplay / sexual lovemaking, as I find it helps me to keep my penis ultra hard for a very long time, and, it also heightens my sexual excitement and helps me feel sexual pleasure more intensely... it may not work like that (intensify sexual excitement) for everyone but it certainly does for me.
Secondly, if that is you in your profile pic he's a very lucky guy and should never need to look at porn to be sexually aroused... you look sooooo sexual, so very hot, I reckon making sexual love with you would surely help intensify any man's sexual excitement and bring about an amazingly pleasurable orgasm
Seriously. Try this.
"Prostate Massage" properly done: Supercharging a HJ or BJ with anal play ↗
This could almost be considered a "forced orgasm", but it works.
Unconditionally, Accept him for what this is. it's like a Crack Addict who Can't get it up when he is High as a Kite.
In all Honesty, Talk to the Doctor and See what can Be Done about his Cum, hun. xx
My sister was on Zoloft and couldnt reach orgasm either.
the only thing i can suggest is talk to his dr to see if there is some other drug they can use.
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That's why they call them "side effects".
That’s a side effect of the antidepressant. He needs to have them, save your horniness for some other time lmao
antidepressants can kill sexual libido. See if you can consider timing sex before he has to take his re-dose. Of course keeping good physical health is important so hopefully they are still being active on working out casually to keep whatever is left of the libido flow.
Lmao at everyone downvoting suggestions to see a doctor...
Because GAG is a more medically accurate source of side effects of a prescribed medication... lmao
I think that can be a side effect together with a lower sex drive
Dude see if you can get him to change his meds.. that really sucks.. imagine how bad it sucks for him.
Well you have three options
1) You can wait it out and see if it improves, orrrrr
2) You can cheat on him, or
3) You can break up with him
Whichever one you choose will say a lot about you
Interesting, I just read a whole outline on Cymbalta and all of it's side effects the only one close to what you describe is a possible lack of interest in sex but it doesn't say anything about lowering the ability to have sex. Does he drink alcohol while on this medication? If so, that may be the culprit.
Depression itself is the culprit, and the antidepressant is a method to help the balance or serotonin the brain. All SSRIs have the same possible sexual side effects. Reduced sexual desire, or difficulty reaching orgasm, or inability to maintain an erection (erectile dysfunction).
Find someone else to either replace him or fill in for him.
I think that's what you're really looking for with this post because of the way you said, "I [am] really missing having a man cum inside me," rather than, "I [am] really missing having my boyfriend cum inside me."
And it doesn't make you bad or wrong to have needs.
Only talk to the doctor change medication all animals not like that
Yeah it fucking sucks. I was on meds that killed my Orgasm and challenged my wood. IT's how I found out about Anal... My girlfriend started fingering my ass, then giving me a prostate massage. I came.. Hard. We experimented and explored all sorts of things, like bj's with a butt plug inserted, It's how we started pegging. Now a days I am doing much better.. but we still dabble in anal..
mm try getting him horny like strip dance trewk
Does he drink lot of water?
go back and talk with his doctor
He’s already on the one that has the most lenient sexual side affects.
good you both need more foreplay go for it
Have him stop the porn. Its not the drug its the porn. Have him quit porn for 30 days you will be amazed
I h ad the same problem with.. (something I can't recall) but I could stay hard for hours but couldnt cum.. I had to switch medication.
Tell him to stop taking that drug.
Choose an alternative medicament.
Or else visit a professional sex therapist,,/sexologist.
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