My boyfriend chats to pornstars and models on Instagram?

I’m just writing this because I’ve been going over and over on about it in my head, a few sleepless nights and some frustrated tears. And I don't know where else to go for advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now, and I can honestly say he's the love of my life... We have a wonderful, exiting and fun life together. Lately I've noticed a change in his behaviour though, and we haven't had sex in almost two months. Which is very odd for us, as we are both very sexual people that love to have sex. I always thought we were on the same level when it came down to sex, but lately I feel like i’m the only one who always wants it. I found out he follows quite a few pornstars/models on instagram and chats to them as well. Asking for photo's and commenting on their posts saying things like "I love you, you're an angel" And it just made me wonder, I mean I can assume he watches porn, which is fine, cause I mean hell, I watch porn sometimes. But I don’t know why it upset me, maybe cause it’s Instagram and it’s a whole lot closer than a pre-recorded video. I just feel a sad about the chatting part and I don't know how to bring this up with him, I don't want to attack him by any means. I just want to understand
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Most Helpful Guy

  • does he do it purely to fuel wank fantasies or because he really does want to get with one of them... both seem disrespectful i know but there is a differnce where if its the first option you may be able to work it out if you can get him to talk openly about it with you

    • It might be a fuel wank fantasy, I really don't know. It doesn't seem like he knows them personally, and he's not chatting about personal stuff just asking for photo's and saying they're perfect...

    • yeah its just one step on from watching porn then and probably doesn't mean he doesn't still love you. he just wants that extra thrill to what he sees on the screen. you do both need to talk about it openly though

    • Yeah think we have to, I just don't know how to bring it up without sounding like a controlling or jealous girlfriend. I don't want him to feel attacked by me bringing it up or anything...

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Sorry to vreak it to you but he definitely isn't the love od your life

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  • Probably wannabe porn stars and models

  • Get rid of him ASAP

  • Throw him away

  • Do they reply

    • Yes.

    • To them? I think for them it's just you know what they do (work) posting pictures of themselves and having a following/website and all that... Don't know if I gain anything by sending them a pm... but it could be an option, yes.

    • Hahaha...