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My boyfriend couldn’t stay hard during sex again is this normal do you think that he’s lying?

this isn’t the first time this has happend sometimes he has a hard time staying hard today he said it was because it was so hot and then he said it was because he touched himself to me so much and then when I asked him how much he said that he didn’t know and then he said 2-3 times a day I don’t believe this I think he’s lying to me and then he said it’s not you it’s me that’s so stereotypical
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He said that it was mainly his fault and he lookex like he felt very bad
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  • There are medications out there that could help him if he has a medical issue also penis rings that vibrate also the plain ones that fit snug work too if he is on the small size also penis rings can be sized up with a Urologist but the thing he got to make sure this is what he wants to try, I know my cousin's friend is age 66 and he uses Viagra and I believe it comes in generic so less expensive but the thing is you two need to sit down and talk about this issue he's having I do know impotence or sexual dysfunction is not a fun thing for men to have I wish you two the best on this matter also there is sex therapist that can sit down and talk to you two and see what is going on

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  • He could be- but more likely, it's just a very temperamental organ being uncooperative. Pressuring him about it is more likely to make things worse than to help. If you can get some rigidity, just enough, fingers and a mouth can get the job done, and even if you can't, he can still use his. Usually it's just a brief, temporary thing, and will pass with time and rest.

    Remember that unless you're trying to get pregnant, there isn't a "wrong way" to have sex; so long as you're all satisfied, you're good.

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  • For a brief period of time, my own husband struggled every now and then. Once he had a failure, he would put so much pressure on himself that he set himself up for the next failure. So I finally told him that I wasn't going to let him penetrate me. The only thing that I would allow him to do would be to give me oral. Guess what, once the pressure was off him to perform, he'd get hard and stay hard as a rock. My advice is to not pressure him, or to cry if there is a failure. Try what I did.

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  • It’s not you it is him but he may just not be sexually attracted to u anymore. Try fingering yourself in front of him asking him things he likes perform oral moan…if turning him on doesn’t work then it’s something he’s keeping from u

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  • So what is it you think he is lying about? Sounds like you are not being supportive whatsoever.

  • He's done it AGAIN, but it's the first time? How is that possible?

  • Sounds like excuses to me. Who can't get hard when its hot?

    • Yeah he said it was too hot, then when I asked him if he touched himself to much he said no then he said that that was why but he just panicked and answered no I don’t know what to believe.

    • If it continues than it’s an issue you need to talk about.

    • He is onlg 24

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  • maybe he is not into you anymore...

    • How do I know that though

    • He takes me to work, is always there for me, always tells me he loves me, has helped me with my driving, is always kind the only thing is the sex making me wonder if I’m not attractive to him

    • He tells you "I love you", but does he tell you "I am in love with you?" They are two different things... I still love my ex but I am not in love with her. We had kids together and a good history together. We just grew apart... Still friends...

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  • It's definitely not normal, but it is common

  • stuck with poor dick.

  • what underwear does he wear?

  • It's normal if he's jerking off 2-3 times a day. Tell him to quit masturbating and save his loads for you.

  • During summer vacation getting off 2-4 times a day is normal. Horny doesn't always mean hard and not horny doesn't always mean soft because getting hard is more physiological. I recommend taking an intro course in biology most of it's boring but pretty easy

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