My boyfriend cums as soon as he enters me Everytime he tries to last longer he loses it. How can I get him to last longer without losing his erection?

We've been together for six months and he's not getting any better. He's also a lot bigger than me I'm 5'3 sand about 140 and he's 6'3 and about 250. Could his size be getting in the way?
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  • Statistics show that larger men last longer.. But doesn't seem so in your case.. Well here's a list of things that might help..

    If he cums out too quick.. Try having sex in rounds.. After about 20 mins he's cummed out either one of you give each other massages until he gets his erection back.. Second round should last longer than the first..

    He might be doing things too quick.. Tell him to take things slow and then gradually bring up the speed..

    Try a bit of foreplay.. He could also probably get too excited and just explode.. Try to get him to be calm and strong..

    You can always get some drugs to help out :D..

    Not one I'd recommend.. But tell him to divert his minds on things he doesn't like..

    Breathing techniques and yoga can help too.. Check out kama sutra..

    That's all I can get from top of my head.. Hope it helps :)

    • We usually take it very slow but as soon as he's all the way inside me I hear "fuck" and thats the end of round one. But i guess we can try out the other tips thanks!

    • Hahahaha, I'm sorry to hear that, that really sucks, OP had some good points though, I heard mama sites is pretty good.

  • 1, make him jack off at least once or several times b4 u fuck and see that helps and girls who are short and smaller tend to be tighter and I'm guessing he's big as well :p

    • I'll jerk him off a couple times before but he still won't last but a few seconds

    • Wow that's sad he defiantly has PE premature ejaculation are u sure yr like supper tight or anything? I've fucked girls w reeally tight pussies I kinda hate it actually :p

    • I'm not super tight but it is a little uncomfortable at the beginning. We don't se each other everyday so by the time we have sex the next week i tighten up again

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  • Is he wearing a condom?
    I don't last nearly as long or have as much control if I don't wear one. I'd rather have the decreased pleasure than the embarrassment of a short session.
    Some condoms also have numbing agents which can help decrease his sensitivity.

    Breathing exercises are something I saw that would be worth trying. He may be overly stimulated.

    Also, have him try kegel exercises. It can help men last longer in bed.

    • We use the trojan ultra thin condoms but even if he's not wearing one its the same thing. Should he wear a thicker one?

    • Give that a try. What do you got to lose, right?

    • Lol everything I've been getting myself off for a while and its kind of annoying

  • He needs to utilize more foreplay, get you more turned on before he enters you , to the point where he knows how to do it just by caressing your skin with his hands. I know from experience you can make a girl climax without ever touching her clitoris or anywhere else down there.

  • What's between his ears can control it more than anything. Sometimes it's also a case of slowing down, but not if he's barely started.
    It usually gets better as men get older, but that doesn't help right now.

    • yea he's only 24

  • Give him a half a bottle of some weak beer to drink before sex. Foreplay for a bit to allow the alcohol to kick in. It will desensitize him. Would aslo greatly help if he jacked off before sex and did kegels.

  • It's not ideal, but if everything else fails, you could try desensitizing gel/spray on the penis. Use in small amount though, apparently it's pretty strong stuff.

  • Simple: Get him to realize the "pleasure button" that he accidentally squeezes in order to gain more pleasure (It's that area that he squeezes below his anus) is his prostate. He's squeezing his prostate in order to receive more pleasure/stay hard. Squeezing your prostate is exactly *how* a male ejaculates (If you wanna get weird, learn about manual prostate ejaculations). On the opposite side, if he doesn't do this he'll probably lose his erection because he's not feeling very much pleasure.

    Overall, he needs to squeeze only now and then in very short bursts to maintain, an erection. These need to be quite short (Probably only about a second or two), and slowly gain experience learning his limits this way.

  • LOL. Just LOL

  • All men need to learn to delay ejaculation. There are a number of ways. The simplest is to slow down the movement when it is near, and to continue when great excitement passes. Another way a condom Durex Performa (www.durex.com/.../performa.aspx)
    The best way to control ejaculation is tantra. (https://www.bookpump.com/upb/pdf-b/1125135b.pdf)

  • Have him masturbate in the morning before an evening date. If that's inadequate, have him do it later.

  • Ask him to wear two condoms to reduce his sensitivity.

  • He could see a doctor about Viagra. I think it is suppose to help guys like him, as well as men that can't get an erection at all.