My boyfriend cums in his boxers during dry humping. Is it weird?

I'm not ready for sex so my boyfriend and I are having dry humping with underwear on instead. He told me he enjoys it and i noticed that he usually ends up cumming in his boxers. Well I'm confused because it never happened to my previous boyfriend, i just used to jerk him off at the end. Do you think it's weird? Should i talk to him about that?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'd consider it a bit weird, yes. He seems to get overly excited. Cumming in your pants is rarely ever a good thing unless the stimulation is direct, deliberate and extended. He should be able to hold off in dry humping. Still, given time and practice he can improve.

  • That mean's is working "Steve".

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IQRiMQwMOsI

Most Helpful Girls

  • He's fine, it is a natural occurrence. It has happened to me before with a bunch of b/f's.

  • Naw, that’s not weird. It feels good enough to him to get him off. Sounds pretty normal.

  • No its not weird. Girls cum while dry humping, it's still friction

  • i think it’s fine and he’s just very attracted to you

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  • No!
    Your previous boyfriend was weird!

  • Reading the comments it sounds like you want to finish him with a hand job instead. Just tell him that then and he will be overjoyed.

  • Just ask him which he would prefer. He may not know that you would offer that as a choice.

  • No it's not weird, you've just turned him on so much he couldn't help it. Is it kind of uncomfortable, yes, but not compared to orgasm. He won't want you to stop doing it. Not if that's all you're doing.

  • No and no.

  • I don't think it's weird.

  • I don't think it's weird at all. As long as he's not walking around in his cum boxers all day, it's fine.

  • Don't read too much into it. You're the one causing him to ejaculate, take it as a compliment. A lot of guys don't give their guys an orgasm so don't read too much into it.

  • No it's normal

  • What the hells the point of not having sex if you're still going to be doing stuff like this?

  • Lol it's not werid

  • Jerk him off.

  • It's an excitement thing. He clearly gets more excited about you that the other guy did. It's nothing to worry about, but just don't make him insecure about it. The proof is when sex actually happens, & how long he lasts in you.

  • Its normal

  • Beta male thing.

  • I'd say so, but I'd also think, lucky him! Lol.

  • Nah. Pretty normal. All depends on what he likes

  • My thought is you excite him so much he's busting a nut too early

  • Isn't that why people do dry humping to cum?

    • Well I don't think it's a good feeling when you cum in your boxers, right?

  • Why is it weird?

    • Well because he ends up cumming in his boxers. i don't think it's a good feeling, right?

    • I don't think it's a difference between inside it or outside

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