My boyfriend didn’t used to be like this is it normal for a guy to not get hard when he sees a woman naked?

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

Today i stripped in front of my boyfriend of three years but he was still soft this is the 3rd time that this happens he didn’t use to be this way. He said that the other two times he was just gassy and that’s why he didn’t get hard and this time he said that he just needs to get into shape which makes no sense because he is a skinny guy with some muscle tone. Do you guys think that maybe it’s bullshit and he’s just not attracted to me? He even asked me to turn around, caressed my breasts, and still wasn’t fully hard. I am worried so please be kind. We only do it like twice a week too and he is only 26.

[stratford]

Once a guy starts to worry about this, it can make things much worse - if you put more pressure on him or he feels bad, then he will be even less likely to get hard.

My advice would be not to worry about it, as long as when it comes to the 'main event' he doesn't have any issues.

You could even go even further and get a bit naughty and kinky for him - if he isn't hard when he sees you naked, he will be when you get down between his legs and take his flaccid dick into your mouth and suck him to hardness while you tickle his balls.

When you say you don't get any release, do you mean when you make love he doesn't make sure you orgasm?

Is it ok to ask what you look like?

[integrale77]

Despite a vague resemblance to an old fashioned light switch our dicks do not always swing to the on position like a light switch.

Some times I'll pick up my girlfriend to bring back to mine for some slap and tickle and I've had a boner the whole car journey but he's having a brief nap when we get to the bedroom. It happens but usually means he can wake up again soon not all men can have an endless boner.

If you ask he might have had a raging boner before he got naked with you and it's just timing that has got the better of him.

[EmmaMary]

@isfpcaramelprincess

You posted an almost identical question not so long ago.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[summiter]

Sometimes it takes more than seeing a naked girl to get a guy hard. Do you think he is jerking off a lot when he is not with you? Does he get hard and stay hard when you do have sex? Is he ever "up" for round 2?

[inhua]

he's able to control his emotions which is a good sign

[slatyb]

Yes, it is. We have no control over this. It's not reasonable for you to take any inferences from his arousal.

[DerekC321]

He may just be really tired for whatever reason. That can make it tough for a guy. Although just speaking for myself I get very hard if I see a nude woman, or even at the beach if I see a hot woman in a bikini.

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

Do you get laid every week?

[DerekC321]

No, I am single. I admit this makes it very difficult for me to control my erections. I think I get hard way too easily and it's been embarrassing.

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

I asked him if he was cheating on me and he said “are you?”

[DerekC321]

That's a cruel thing to say. I'm sorry, you really don't deserve to hear that. It sounds like you care about this relationship and he should appreciate that.

[DerekC321]

Omg so weird

[Sharkstealth]

Diet and excercise have a big impact on blood circulation which is what makes a guy hard. He needs to eat lots of leafy greens and fruit. Daily 20 minute excercise. Garlic ginger turmeric ginseng are also good. No matter the age all of this will be beneficial. Lots of water and no soda.

[smilelots]

not every one gets hard seeing a naked lady but if you start to play with yourself or dirty dance that may help let me know

[jahaims]

You are way over thinking it. Does your pussy just start dripping when you see him naked?

[Longshank]

No way! If he wants you sexually he will always get hard! Jesus I get hard so many times a day and I’m mid 40s ha

[nudeNhorny]

Look these things happen, maybe he just got used to seeing you like that and he needs extra effort to get stimulated.
I suggest you try to spice things up, try new things.

[Guido]

There could be a lot of reasons why he does not get hard instantly from seeing you naked. It could be fatigue or a medical reason. I don't get hard when I see my wife naked as I have seen that soo many times over the past 30 years. If she touches me then I respond as that means we are having sex but just looking isn't enough anymore.

[Anonymous]

Some men have self-control. It is a sign of maturity.