My boyfriend doesn’t ask for sex as much?

Guys, is this normal? We just moved in together and things are going great but we don’t have sex as often anymore. We’ve been together for 9 months now. Whenever I want to have sex, I initiate and he’s always willing. But did I do something wrong?

by the way, we used to have sex almost everyday but now it’s once or twice a week. I’m not worried about it, I’ve just never had a guy show less interest in sex after a while.
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  • I stopped asking my gal because when I wanted it she would turn it into a big huge fighting event saying I was pressuring her for it. Now I never ask, she never asks, I handle my own sex life waiting for some gal who will want it since mine told me to et it from someone who can give it to me for as long as I need to finish.

    • Damn that sucks. I don’t ask, I just start messing with his dick and then his pants come off real fast. It sounds like your woman does that to get things out of you or make you feel guilty. I don’t know

    • I personally like the way you do it because it seems more like you want it than it does just asking "Hey wanna do it?" As far as why mine does what she does, I do not know, she claims to have lost her drive and can't stand near an hour of me pumping on her to get off, and says because she has no desire she feels pressured when I ask her.

    • Sounds like her hormones are out of whack. Maybe she should go see a naturopath or something.

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  • After 9 months... yes, normal. But 1 to 2 times a week is on the lower side. Mine was around 2 to 4 times a week.

    Perhaps try living a nude lifestyle when you have privacy. The "free-flowing" of pheromone should drive up your sex drives. 😄

    • Thanks!

    • Get some nice curtains to block out the outside views of all windows, and then install low lumen warm lights. Its very sensual to just be naked throughout the day in the house. And I think guys like that.

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  • I don't know with my ex we were together 3 years and still did it 3x a day, so there's something going on, don't forget he could just have other priorities than you or just plain tired or low testosterone

    • He did mention that his sex drive has gone down. I think you just helped me figure it out. Thanks!

    • ya no problem, probably just he is drained energy wise if he said it himself

  • He might be busy or doesn't enjoy it in a regular basis like before

  • I think sex Is overrated from what I’ve heard. Do something more productive

  • Maybe he is not wanting to do it quite as much because part of it was being close with you and now that you're living together he always has that closeness and he doesn't need it from sex.

  • Go pantyless in leggings and topless around him see what happens☺

  • Did you have this conversation with him? What was said?

  • It can happen

  • Happens sometimes he may be overloaded with work or having some other stress.

    Girls dont understand that

    • We’ve both been kinda busy with work and stuff so I understand.

  • lets talk about it

  • Try something new don't have regular sex only

  • He knows that there is a limit to everything.

  • If u doing it everyday chances are he’s not getting charged up since u doing it everyday... or he’s busy and can’t keep up.

  • Yes it’s normal.