My boyfriend doesn't complement my body?

my SO never complements me so i asked him yesterday what his favorite features are on my body, he said my lips, my face and my hair :(

as much as every girl would love to hear complements like that, i just wish he''d complement my body, he says my ass is flat, calls it an ironing board, my boobs are pretty small and he tells me they are small. i don't think any of his exs had small boobs, because he tried to tit fuck me and well it just didn't work.

i get i don't have a good body i store fat in all the wrong places, but i wouldn't hurt if he played with my boobs every once in awhile instead of just biting my nipples and slapping my ass. i don't think he understands what its like to be a girl with small boobs, i guess its the equivalent to being a guy with a small dick. i guess it would be nice to be complemented on my figure especially when im not feeling the best about my body
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he says when i'm pregnant he can tit fuck me, which just make me feel even worse, and less of a women
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  • The word is "compliment".

    Some guys your age may feel awkward to engage in "body language". Ya, understand that many guys are not good at expressing their likings to the girl they like.

    Of course its not an excuse. Rather I bring it up to help you determine if he is actually attracted to you, but lack the skill to tell you about it without feeling awkward.

    If he is indeed such a guy, then lead him slowly to express himself. Perhaps you starting to compliment him could be a good start.

    Likely, when he feels your sincerity, he will fall in love more deeply with you and his compliments will flow. Who knows? Give it a try.

    • Thank you I do appreciate you trying to see the good in my SO, I do component him daily. Calling him handsome and sexy, he's a bodybuilder so I complement his muscle and tell him when they have grown

    • If you love him, forgive him 😁😁😁 Guys are careless with compliments (not complement). Try to see if he cares for other aspects of your life, like paying for food, sharing rent, do the laundry (staying together?), even talk about your future together. All these show he loves you. Then allow time and encouragement to mold him into a romantic.😁

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  • Your boobs are great x

    Small boobs are nothing like small dicks.

    Most people like small boobs, almost no one likes small dicks.

    I dont care where you are storing your fat, you are lovely and he is lucky to have you, if you aren't happy then dont stay with him, there is a queue of guys waiting for a shot with you.

    Im not saying they aren't all douche bags too because they might be worse than this asshole but you dont have to put up with being unappreciated and this is wearing you down and damaging your mind.

    • You should just break up with this guy i think, large breasts are clearly important to him and you dont have them, neither of you are getting what you want so why dont you just date other people?

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  • i mean, communication is the key, so just tell him this and if he gets in a bad mood, i just dont know if he's a keeper love

  • Well, we don't see you, but you're not painting a very flattering picture. Do you have nice legs? What part is it that you want him to complement?

  • He's not just not complimenting your body, he's being insulting about something you have no control over. If he never said anything about your body, I'd say he just feels awkward talking about it. This just sounds like he's being mean...

  • You should buy one of those lacy outfits that shows your body

  • Wow, you are dating a complete asshole and I think you should think long and hard about dumping him.

  • Some men (like me) actually prefer small boobs

  • How many small dicked guys have you complimented? Yet you think your small boobs should be complimented?

    • I can't do anything about my boobs, guys shouldn't feel Insecure about their dick size as scientifically proven all female pleasure centers are located within 2-3inches. Wi th small boobs you don't have cleavage nor can you tit fuck, women are idealisrocally suppose to have big busts as if is a sign of fertility