My boyfriend doesn't fuck me good enough?

I think my vagina is too loose for him. Yet he's a minute man. He says I have the best pussy he's been in but I dont believe him...

What I'm trying to say is... my ex was super thick and hung. I barely feel my boyfriends dick during missionary n it doesn't feel amazing in doggy style.

I got him numbing spray and a cock ring AND THAT felt amazing. Maybe I should stick to that? I think about sleeping with my ex fuck buddy all the time :( HELP
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  • Honestly, I think you should just tell him all that you just told us.

    He doesn't satisfy you, he's smaller and can't hold his load. Ask him if he would be interested in cuckoldry. Get the best of both worlds.

    Otherwise you will eventually cheat, it's inevitable.

    • He wants a 3 sum. Cool ffm... but I said I'll do it if only I have a mmf... and he's not down with that. He admitted he wouldn't eat my pussy again if another mans dick he knows has been in there

    • Use chastity to change his views.

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  • Sometimes it about angles, foreplay etc. Sex isn't always about the finish line. y'all havr to learn to relish the pleasure step by step instead of the ultimate act of sex. When im with someone who is a "2 pump chump" or if they think im loose (which by the way, isn't a thing), i practice pleasure and then allow them their orgasm at the end. If the pleasure and adventure through the session is fulfilling enough, i dont even need an orgasm because there were so many moments that were fulfilling

  • Okay, one, calm your cheating whore inside you.
    Sit down with him and be honest about how its not as pleasurable and how the numbing spray and cock ring helped. discuss with him other things that can help you feel better in sex such as foreplay and such.
    and if all else fails, you can buy cock sleeves to enhance their size. you're not completely fucked (haha, puns!) but you need to talk to him.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You pussy is as tight as you make it.

    There's nothing in your pussy that makes him cum fast, only in his mind, and because he thinks you are the world and has no idea on how to control excitement besides some anxiety issue, he cums fast.

    You both need to learn to control your own bodies and understand that you are the only one who can control your pleasure.

    • Thank you!

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  • You need to talk to your boyfriend. Cheating is unacceptable. You and your ex broke up for a reason. This dissatisfaction with your current boyfriend is why men prefer women with a lower "body count." (# of sexual partners).
    Try sitting on top of your boyfriend and rubbing your clit. Work a vibrator into the routine. Good luck, but be honest with your boyfriend and yourself.

  • Maybe try these positions for a small dick first

    • Would you mind rating my dick?

    • @Kiryu1 Yes I would mind and I wouldn't do it

    • Ok cool

  • Teach him what feels good and what you like. Also consider using some sex toys on yourself to give yourself some great orgasms

  • Just move on. Fucking behind your boyfriend's back is 100% unacceptable! Just find a guy who satisfies you in this way. And, yes, find a guy with a big dick because your pussy is fucked-out likely by the last guy.

  • Guilty conscience is a mf

  • Try different postions.

  • Consider working out, it should tighten it up inside there, Vaginas will become loose if it's used too much, that's just how it is.

  • I think there is a lot you could both do that might help. Kegels could help his endurance and help your pelvic floor muscles tighten up. He needs to learn how to watch his breathing and focus on pleasing you instead of climaxing right away. There are positions that will help you feel him better even though he’s not well endowed. If both of you look into these things and work as a team on improving your sex life, even better.

  • Well what do you think of wife swaping, orgies and 3 somes. See if he'll go for them. Then you can have real sex and he might get schooled on how to fuck

  • It sounds like you already have your solution? Either keep the numbing spray and cock ring going, find some new toys, or find a bigger boyfriend.

  • Cut him loose. He surely deserves better.
    And if your cunt is loose, do the kegels.

  • And here's the kind of woman that scares me.

    • Why do I scare you?

    • How would you feel if I told you your pussy doesn't satisfy me as much as my sexy exes, because it is too loose?

    • Itd probably hurt my feelings

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  • that's as if you're a beach volleyballer saying "my team mate doesn't play good enough"... well then train to get better or get a better partner. your choice. sex is a team sport. don't bitch and moan. do what needs to be done.

    hot tip: edging as well as kegels (yes men can do kegels) are very helpfull endurance training methods.

  • Wow we really need all these details

  • Forget about the how and why, and just break up and move on.

  • women think their orgasm is the most important thing in the world

  • Get one of those kegal eggs to maje your pussy tighter

  • There are penis sleeves, strapons etc. Or you could open up the relationship a bit, maybe get in touch with that old fuck buddy.

  • this situation is doomed.

    • Why you say that?

    • you miss mighty hung too much and cheating will be worse

    • K love my boyfriend tho. I couldnt physically cheat I dont think I ever will I'm just miserable

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  • Dump the micro pecker and find a bigger boi. Make sure you ask for D pick on all future lovers. Women are kind of dumb who shun D picks because it is just men being up front and honest with what they have to offer.

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