Guys, My boyfriend doesn't like me to get wet, any suggestions?

We get aroused. I try different positions and what not, but when it comes to have sex and ofc I get wet (not too much I'd think, like the minimum otherwise it hurts?) well he fucks me for a bit and then stops because he says he's not hard anymore. He says it gets too slippery and can't feel anything. I don't know what to try. It's not like he's going down on me or anything, it's in general, even if I get on top to try to get more friction it still happens. What should I do?
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  • Yeah, tell him you'd like his dick to be bigger, both are unreasonable expectations. He can't make his dick bigger without the probability of ruining sex and his fertility, same as you can't just get drier without the same thing happening. What a strange creature...

    Honestly, you wouldn't be asking this unless you felt you need some closure before, you know, just leaving him. Of all things though, "you're too wet" that would be the part where things can start getting good, you know, she's wet, he's hard. Sigh, just ask him what's really wrong, because unless you're the first woman he's ever been with there's something else up. On his end, not yours.

  • You being wet is not the problem, as that is normal and natural for a woman, when sexually aroused. Have you tried doggy? Have you tried him entering, then bringing your legs together?

    • He doesn't like doggy in general. I've done the other and it reduces the chances but can still happen so I don't know :/

    • If he doesn't like doggy, then he is at least part of the problem, as he is unwilling to do what helps. Also, you said "reduces the chances, but can still happen". That means it doesn't happen all of the time, and there may be clues from the times that it doesn't happen, that if used, will make it happen less often. One possibility is a longer time building up to sex. A woman has a limited amount of lubricant in her pussy. The lubricant is excreted when she is turned on. If the foreplay is long, and uses up much of her lubricant supply, then there will be less there when he enters her. That may help, or not, depending.

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  • I think your boyfriend is using your wetness as an excuse for him not keeping a boner. Easier for him to blame you than think that he has something wrong with himself.

  • When it gets too wet, pull out and both of you wipe away the excess with a cloth then continue. That brings back the friction and is so quick that neither will lose their arousal.

  • No such thing as being too wet if he's going soft when he thinks your too wet then he has other problems!

    Get him a bottle of lube and tell him to jerk off using that so he gets used to the slip and slide and say no more pussy till he gets to the bottom of the bottle 😂

  • He should try going down on you until you and drink as much of you as he can. That's what I would do.

  • Dude is a loser. That is the sexiest thing alive. You have nothing to apologize for. Find a new boyfriend.

  • He needs to stop yanking it so much. Decreases sensativity.

  • Think about it as the reverse. What if you told him you don't like him getting hard? Your vagina is supposed to get wet when you're aroused.

  • He's just insecure, is all. He's probably going flaccid and feeling bad about losing libido.

    Short of blue pills, he needs to get his diet and fitness in order.

  • A) if he masturbates too frequently, ask him to cut down a bit.
    B) You can't control how wet you get, ask him to try having a bigger penis.
    C) He may actually get benefit from using a condom
    D) Ligate his penis, with a cock ring or similar

    Putting things in your vagina, to either lessen or negate the moisture is not advisable.
    I've had a couple of partners who were very very copious in their liquidity and it's easy enough to overcome, you just have to work with it.

  • Keep one of these nearby. If you get to wet, blot out.

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