My boyfriend doesn’t seem interested in sleeping with me anymore, why?

So we’ve been dating for about a year and a half and I’m his first long term girlfriend.
he has always been shy and not as interested in the sexual side of stuff, but I am more into it and need it more than he does.
Slowly he has become more into it, we are in a long distance relationship due to work so we only see each other once a week, and this means he is quite tired/or we are both tired which affects our time when we do try to sleep together.
He tends to only be able to go once whereas I’m able to go a few times, but the last time he wasn’t really into it at all, I noticed it when I saw him he didn’t kiss me like normal and then he only went once but he always makes sure I’m happy, but this time he didn’t seem into it as usual?
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Superb Opinion

  • first of all, what kind of job do you two have, cause it's important to know how heavy his work is that gets him this tired
    second, how do you tell that he has become more active in sex? maybe he didn't and you just assumed he did
    and at last, have you talked to him about this?
    if you two are in a relationship it's not always about sex, you should try and for once instead of sex just sit and relax together and tell whatever goes through your mind without judging the other person

    • Yeah I’ll talk to him and clear things up when I see him next, he’s good at talking about things with me so it’s a good idea

    • now that's the spirit also, I agree with @fred_durst, stress could be the reason as well

Most Helpful Guy

  • He is losing interest. Spice things up a little give him a surprise bj let him fuck your face. Tell him u want to be his little slut. Tell him he can do whatever he wants to you. Ask him what are his fantasies and then DO them. Or be prepared for the relationship to slowly end :(

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think you both are not having a satisfied sex life

    • Maybe... I’m just surprised that as a guy he doesn’t want or need more, like he’s happy just going once a week when he sees me... it annoys me I think and he doesn’t seem to appreciate me like I want him to want me more

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why don't you find a another boy

    • Do you think I should?

    • Why not

  • most common reason sex drive decline on men is stress caused by his job

  • Maybe you shoulde Like try to talk to him about that becuse maybe he have some reason. But if he just Don t want to sleep with you without reason then you shoulde Break up with him

  • Either dump and move to find someone more sexually compatible or cuckold him