My boyfriend doesn't want me to see his dick?
We already had sex once but he wouldn't let me see it..
He seems ashamed of it even though I told him that I love everything about him even if he's not "perfect" at least in his eyes..
What can I do?
Most likely he feels insecure about it; society tells men that penis size is INCREDIBLY important to women. In reality, it's more important to men (and that's purely in a social sense; I don't know much gay guys care about it sexually), and even there, it's hardly the be-all end-all. This is the same mentality that leads women to refuse changing their clothes in front of men they're having sex with- it doesn't make much sense if you actually think about it, but it FEELS right, at least to them.
Unfortunately, this is a problem you can't confront for him; doing so is his decision and his alone. What you CAN do is be supportive of him (in general, I mean) and try to find ways to work around this psychological shortcoming (you'd want him to do the same for you, wouldn't you?). Try, through words and actions, to convey that you love him even with his imperfections, and eventually, it'll start to click that he can show you without worrying about scaring you off.
You can even push it a little- but only a little; don't go too far. For example, ask to blow him. He'll naturally object to showing you, and you can offer to wear a blindfold. Is that weird? Yes. But if it works, it's all to the good- it'll let you get the job done, it'll help him relax into being around you, and it'll show him that you're willing to go the extra mile for his sake. The goal is to build trust and comfort.
Penile size is way more important to men than women! For women it may just be the quality of sex. But for men it's about self-confidence if he's not allowing you to see his penis then he might be suffering lack of self-confidence at least in sexuality... here you should make him feel confident and safe and secure... you need to ensure him your feeling is far beyond just some stupid centimeters! If you make him feel safe about it, i assure you he'll come along. But don't try to pretend it makes things worse!
Good luck with penis!
Let it be. I think if he doesn’t want to share that part of him yet, let him. He’ll show you when he’s ready. It’s not the best idea to force your acceptance on him.
Just try to convince him that you don't care what it looks like and you won't make fun of him for it he's probably just self conscious about it
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Be patient. He’s insecure for whatever reason. Don’t make an issue of it and he’ll become more comfortable with you as you have more sex.
Get him buzzed…
Take him home… lay him down on his back “got a surprise for you”. Secure him well. Drop his jeans halfway-knees still covered…let’s see here…pull out iPhone 📱…let’s see if it is easier to see now since looks like.5…. there we go…1.5 looks much better 🙃🙃. Don’t take a pic 🤳…with you and penis….
Have you told him he's small?
He must have one of those micro dong things.
He seems insecure. Probably thinks he’s not big enough
He's probably self conscious about his size. Just continue to be accepting and he'll probably get past this hang up.
:):) not a big deal, his decision ı respect but why are you wanting to see his dick so much? :)
likely insecure about it's size and/or shape. my guess is because of stuff he read, heard or saw online.
He must be tiny.
it may be curved or even broken he be ok latter
Offer him a blow job. you'll have to see it then.
Maybe he thinks he small
He thinks that he has small one that's why he doesn't want to show you his dick. Tell him like i dont like big ones i like small dicks etc.
That's really weird. Doesn't it disgust you then?
How did you have sex and not see it? Did you do it in the dark? I guess he never got a bj or handjob from you. I can’t imagine what is so bad about it to hide it, usually if it’s small or bent sideways is only reason to hide it but he can’t hide the sausage forever
Tell him it's going to be difficult to blow him if you can't see his dick.
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