Guys are not all the same - we have preferences and orientations and other things just like girls. Many guys are dominant, but some are submissive, and some have NO interest in kink or BDSM in either direction. That's a point of compatibility that you need to check for BEFORE you enter a relationship with someone, just like points like:
- religion
- money handling
- desire for marriage
- desire for kids
- obligations to family
- careers
- where you want to live
And so forth. Compatibility is CRUCIAL in a relationship, and you have to decide which issues are important to you, which ones you can bend on, and which ones you're fine with either way. If you and your partner aren't a good match, then it really doesn't matter how good of a person they are or how awesome you think they are, you are still incompatible, so it's really important to find those things out VERY early on.
It's kind of late now, of course, but if these things are a big deal to you, it may mean that you are incompatible, because there's a good chance that he's never going to change his mind about this.
A lot of guys think that is disrespectful. If we really care and respect the woman we are with, sometimes the unfortunate result is vanilla sex. He might really want to do it, but can't do it to you, because of these feelings. See if you can get him to make some small compromises. Like simple bondage, instead of anything rough, and slowly ask for more as he gets comfortable with something. Or maybe some maid master role play. He should be willing to do something different every once in a while for you. So try to find a way to adjust his comfort zone a little bit. Slowly over time he should get more use to the idea. Try talking to him and letting him know it isn't about disrespect, if that is indeed his problem with it. You should be able to come up with a compromise.
Not all guys like it rough, just like not all girl like vanilla. We all have different tastes and boundaries. Anal is not something that common and if he's disgusted by it , there is not much you can do about it.
As for BDSM, even though fifty shades of grey made it more popular, it is still a fetish that many people don't like. Most people got into vanilla bdsm and don't actually get the all concept.
You have to understand that is something really extreme for a man to just use his girlfriend's body like she was an object.
Not every guy is rough. It's great that you want to try new things but you have to accept that your partner doesn't want to. I suggest that you talk to him and explain that you'd like to do these things and that you'd love if he was interested in it but if he says that he doesn't want to, then you need to accept that he doesn't want to, the same way you'd expect for him to respect your choices. Maybe ask him about things that he'd like to do instead.
Like most other things, it comes down to preferences. He might be conservative and traditional around this. I've met guys who actually like and want it to be intimate and stuff, and aren't into all that dominating getting it rough... If its important to you u should probably ask him why and see if it could be worked out.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He is already "using your body" the way he likes it, silly. That's why he is not interested in BDSM.
Your guy broken hihihi;))
Some guys are more timid or less dominate. I will help you out though.
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