My boyfriend forced me without a condom?

Question

I and my boyfriend were getting intimate after a previous argument and I told him to get a condom but he rejected it. I said no stop and he held me down despite my protests and inserted himself without anything even though I closed my legs. He was upset that I didn't want another kid and told me how he hates using a condom. I was silent until he finished not releasing.

He didn't understand why I was so angry and I sent him to go get plan b and he was upset that I wasn't willing to have a second kid. He's gone now to store and I don't what to do and feel miserable. To make things worse I can't leave him because I need financial help for our baby.

Any advice?

NotABunny · Accepted Answer

Friggin yikes gal. You really gotta get a way to leave that guy. This isn't good at all and you know that so don't deny it.

You also might wanna report that guy. This is seriously rape and very messed up. That guy needs to leave and you gotta report this.

worldscolide · Accepted Answer

You lost me at forced.. Go to the police, you said no, he held you down and ignored you.. Go to the police, he raped you.. His actions are unacceptable.

AlexisP98 · Accepted Answer

He should not be your boyfriend he isn't being respectful and supportive of you as a partner and if he won't listen to you about your own body he won't listen to you about anything

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Are you sure he didn't misunderstand you when you told him to stop? Don't, stop! No! Don't!, Stop! No, don't stop! Don't stop!

Bee-Hatch · Answer

You're dating a rapist. Probably best you report him.

SnakeBoop · Answer

No reason Is worth staying with a rapist. Please get out and REPORT HIM

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

That’s rape and needs reported. If you do not report it, the. It will keep happening. he will use the cannot leave him as leverage for everything. you need to get out early.

summiter · Answer

What he did was wong and it was rape if you said no. Dump his ass and call the cops

Browneye57 · Answer

Wow... a match made in heaven.  YOU PICKED HIM.

es20490446e · Answer

How does he feel in the present moment about that situation? Knowing what he now knows had he acted like that again?

moviedude714 · Answer

Doesn't sound like a good partner to me and I would dump him if I were you

Pterodon · Answer

He didn’t force you. You allowed it period

the_crazy_guy · Answer

Report that asshole.

OddBeMe · Answer

Well…that’s rape. And you already had the baby, right?

EaterPeter · Answer

Leave him.

Yellovv · Answer

Do you have rape fantasy or what?

Anonymous · Answer

You shouldn’t have to live with someone who holds you in such low regard that he would rape you. I understand your financial situation but do you have family that would help you if you move out? If not, you could apply for public assistance and get away from him. There’s always a way.

Anonymous · Answer

A hard enough kick to the testicles will make it impossible for him to orgasm. And it also makes him unable to produce sperm to make you pregnant.

Anonymous · Answer

so basically he raped you. you better go to the hospital and the police and have them perform a rape kit test on you and file charges against him for rape

Anonymous · Answer

Go to the hospital and ask for a rape kit then go to the police and press charges against him. There are a number of women's shelters for you and your child to go to that will support you while you leave this rapist.