My boyfriend gets bored whilst pleasuring me because I take too long to orgasm. How can I make it a good experience for both of us?

[Anonymous]

He never used to complain that he was getting bored or that his hand was sore, but recently he's getting more and more reluctant to do it, and when he does he's got the "let's just get it over with" attitude. It can take around 20-30 minutes for me to come, and I understand that his hand would cramp after a while but then he gets slightly annoyed at me. I pleasure him afterwards, but if I do him before he does me, it's as though he completely loses all interest in my pleasure. It's like he's completely disregarding my needs and feelings. What do I do?

[HereToProveMyPoint]

Best if he does you first because once the cum's out he'll get way less horny.
He should be willing to put in the effort for you :/ it's a dick move not to, and it's rewarding for him anyway. Try tongue on clit at same time as fingering, feels really good and it might be faster. Everyone's different tho, just experiment. Don't let him cut short your enjoyment unless he wants the same done to him!

[Deth2AllButMetal]

Maybe his technique is lacking. I think he is being an immature dick. Some times it does take me longer to get there and I understand. While my SO is pleasuring me I will either stroke his penis with my hand or give him a hand job with both feet cupping around his penis. It's like a hand job but with feet. It keeps him stimulated.

[masterfullydone]

A. Losing interest after orgasm is how guys work.
B. He's immature if he thinks 20-30 minutes is a long time.
C. Seriously one time I had to for like 5 hours straight because she wanted more and let me tell you that was boring as all hell. But 30 min should be the expected average

[Danielleo]

takes that long bc your too slow with your mouth 5 hours that's not necessary you gotta learn how to do it quick but good that's if you can.

[masterfullydone]

I think you inferred the wrong thing. This wasn't for one orgasm she could just have multiple and thus didn't want to stop. I wish I had a Gameboy.

[Danielleo]

sorry bud im older and have more xp than you lol and still imagine giving oral everyday to her are you going to give it for 5 hours every time.

[masterfullydone]

It wasn't oral it was intercourse and it was 4-5 hours 4-6 days a week and it was literally exhausting draining even it was kinda horrible

[masterfullydone]

Also were the same age...

[Danielleo]

id say let him wait till you finish first, tease him abit , moan and don't fake if he's making you climax or making you feel good during oral that way he enjoys it and doesn't loose interest what do you think is that abit helpful or not

[Danielleo]

nvm I thought this was about oral

[Intraluminal]

Has he tried eating you? That's much more fun.

[This_is_my_username]

Sorry girl he's just not that into you. Change boyfriends

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Figure out what's inhibiting your passion from taking hold.

Chances are he doesn't like doing it because how long it takes you to orgasm makes him feel crappy, but he's too afraid to bring it up.

[teacha169]

wow dont know what to say

[thomasans]

Dont do anything. Make him do you first or you won't get done.

[LastNightmare]

he's really buy into you baby.. I used to pleasure one of my girl for almost half an our with oral and fingering to make her reach her to the peak..
babe, he should use different pattern, same pattern will surely bore him

[Thongsman]

so don't give him any sex and watch him change

[GARY-]

Get yourself to orgasm first, then go see him.

[GARY-]

Or continue by yourself after you're done with him.

[Anonymous]

you see when you release sperm you loses wants of having sex so suck his dick while youlet him do yours

[Anonymous]

He doesn't know how to do it