My boyfriend gets hard when we make out?

[Anonymous]

Recently our make out sessions have gotten more intense (neck kissing, light biting, kissing and nibbling down into my bra, squeezing boobs through bra, biting his lip). He likes when I straddle him while he's laying down and I notice that every time I do, he gets semi hard. I have started grinding on him a little while we kiss (kind of just moving my hips to graze his erection). I think he likes it. What else can we do that will turn both of us on? I am not quite ready to give him a hand job. Would it be bad to rub him through his shorts without taking it out? Help!

[summiter]

He obviously likes what you two are doing and I'm sure he masturbates as soon as you leave him (yes all guys do, but they will never admit it) Rubbing him through his shorts can be fun, but when/if he cums it might mess up his pants. I say go for the handjob... guys love them. Ask him to show you how he does it that way you can't possibly mess up. Yor thoughts?

[Asker]

I'm sure he would rather not cum in his pants. I don't want to make him embarrassed and uncomfortable.

[EpicDweeb]

If you're not ready to give him a hand job then don't rub him through is shorts... That's body language for "pull it out." That's about as far as I'd ever go if you don't want to end up going "too far." If you try getting any closer, it's gonna be like a magnet that pulls you in the rest of the way very quickly.

[Asker]

That's true. I wasn't thinking that it would make him pull it out

[EpicDweeb]

It's okay, I get wanting to turn your partner on and such, but turning him on is almost like baiting him "don't you wanna have sex?" If you go too far he'll take it as a blatant invitation. So just be aware of what you're communicating when you're with him. :)

[Pinay_ako]

lick his ears and bite them while rubbing his member. he will go nuts lol

[GeorgeDubyaKUSH]

Have him rub your clit/vagina through your pants while you're tongue kissing. I've done that to every girlfriend I've ever had when we would make out.

[Asker]

How do I get him to do that?

[GeorgeDubyaKUSH]

Tell him to do it. It's a huge turn on when women talk dirty, so tell him to rub your pussy and he'll happily do it. Or when you're in a makeout session and your tongue is in his mouth, pull his hand down there and put it on your crotch.

[Krodaxun]

Don't go any further if you aren't ready to give him a handjob. You would just be leading him on.

[TadCurious]

I don't think it would be wrong to rub him through his shorts. But you need to know that that's gonna get him REALLY turned on and he's gonna need some relief one way or another.

[Asker]

Maybe I shouldn't do it then?

[TadCurious]

No, I'm not saying don't do it. Just be prepared if he cums in his shorts.

[reptocarl]

Why don't you ask him these things?

[Joseph_Stalin]

put hand in pants like snake going through snow!

[Asker]

I'm not ready to give him a hand job

[Joseph_Stalin]

is more of tease

[Asker]

So I shouldn't touch him down there at all

[Joseph_Stalin]

you want to turn him on, that is how

[DarkWasTaken]

You don't turn on someone if you're not expecting to do something with him afterward. That's only gonna get bad once he gets too into it and you're forced to turn him down despite being the one who teased him on purpose.

[Asker]

@DarkWasTaken but he enjoys when I grind on him and he knows I am not ready to do more. He doesn't ask me to stop. He asks me to go on top when we make out

[DarkWasTaken]

Well if it's consentual and you trust him then I guess there's no problems.

[samsmoove]

Don't rub his dick if you're not gonna jsck him off. He'll just get an extreme case of blue balls and probsbly get annoyed if you don't go further

[OlderGuy965]

Don't tease him. Either fuck him or don't tease him

[Asker]

Am I teasing him?

[OlderGuy965]

If you're grinding him and getting him hard. He will act on it soon, if you don't. If you're not ready, than stop making him hard. Whatever it is that makes him hard.

[ReyloRey]

damn ur cold😂😂😂 @asker

[Jondozer]

I get hard wen my girl freind and I make out it's normal

[Anonymous]

Nah you should start blowing him

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't it be bad to do so. Go for it.

[Anonymous]

Geez! **suppressing a boner from your description** of COURSE it wouldn't be bad. Better for the fabric to remain in one place so you don't chafe him. Flesh to flesh the sooner the better.
You can ride (grind) him Cowgirl. Have him not wear jeans (thick, metal zipper). Perhaps dark tennis shorts (he keeps on, of course). You wear a pleated skirt you can lay out on him while you ride. Wear satiny panties, not a thong. They will slide better.. You and he will be shorts-to panties, which will allow some sensation. Been there, done that.