My boyfriend gets turned on when im in pain during sex?

[Anonymous]

We were having sex last night and as usual he can be soft and he can be rough I dont mind that. I like rough sex too But last night we were in doggy position and he stick his finger in my anus (it usually doesn't hurt but he went really deep) so it kind of hurt me And i was in abit of pain and tried to get his finger out but he kept pounding me for few seconds and then he came He said "omg.. i think i get turned on when you're hurting or in pain. I just came" Is this normal?

[CheckPlease]

For some it can be part of being dominant but I would be to worried about hurting her to cum. It would kill the mood. Chances are he will hurt you again and like it. Careful with that guy there is a red flag for you.

[Asker]

He doesn't do it all the time to cum He can cum without hurting me as well

[ThisDudeHere]

A side-effect of being dominant. Not a necessary one but I don't see it as all that unusual if it happens.

[Asker]

Yeh he said he likes being dominant

[kikikat95]

He's into bdsm

[Tyzar]

Worth noting, BDSM doesn't require the pain stuff, specifically he's a sadist.

[kikikat95]

Yeah that's what I'm going for I couldn't think of the stupid word for it

[AthleticMom]

just... GROSS
lose this guy ASAP

[Exitium]

Fake it next time (pain), plus get a safe word.

[BoyIfYouDont666]

Well, i guess it's normal if your fine with that.

[Slothium]

Yeah for most guys it's normal.

[DamnMan]

It's normal to a point.

[swettannie]

A lot of men are like this

[Decentguy]

he could have some sadists tendencies

[Halucinator]

I guess it's normal for a dom

[Anonymous]

The only way I would get turned-on or enjoy seeing/hearing a girl in pain would be if I was not the cause of it... and if I knew that it was genuine.
(such as in a video)

[Anonymous]

For me? Yes, if allowed I enjoy hurting those girls pretty thoroughly. But I come unto an agreement first - So there are no misunderstandings.